Chump Bailey Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 So, I made the mistake of asking a female co-worker out to dinner and she's married. But before you tear me a new one, let me please attempt to place some perspective on things. Yes I'm wrong for doing so but hopefully some of you can relate because she is super hot and I'm extremely attracted to her. Still wrong but give a guy a break Anyways... She would directly stare at my package A LOT and bend over in front of me. She would also wear these damn bodysuits and shake her butt in front of me as well. It's not as simple as she just labeling her as being mean and manipulative because I do not think she is at all. For example, when I was sick with Covid and bronchitis and was out of work for weeks, she showed me extreme kindness. She also allowed me to run my fingers through her hair while she was sitting at her desk and did not make a flinch. Nothing creepy mind you - it was done in a gentle way. I also have nothing to really offer her money wise, climbing the ladder etc. I am very perplexed about her reaction, which was not good to say the least. We're okay, talking again and so forth but if anyone could offer me some advice about this I would greatly appreciate it. By the way. I do like this person a lot and am not just trying to get her in bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jabbyrwock Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 2 minutes ago, Chump Bailey said: So, I made the mistake of asking a female co-worker out to dinner and she's married. But before you tear me a new one, let me please attempt to place some perspective on things. Yes I'm wrong for doing so but hopefully some of you can relate because she is super hot and I'm extremely attracted to her. Still wrong but give a guy a break Anyways... She would directly stare at my package A LOT and bend over in front of me. She would also wear these damn bodysuits and shake her butt in front of me as well. It's not as simple as she just labeling her as being mean and manipulative because I do not think she is at all. For example, when I was sick with Covid and bronchitis and was out of work for weeks, she showed me extreme kindness. She also allowed me to run my fingers through her hair while she was sitting at her desk and did not make a flinch. Nothing creepy mind you - it was done in a gentle way. I also have nothing to really offer her money wise, climbing the ladder etc. I am very perplexed about her reaction, which was not good to say the least. We're okay, talking again and so forth but if anyone could offer me some advice about this I would greatly appreciate it. By the way. I do like this person a lot and am not just trying to get her in bed. Not so much advice about women, just advice in general: running your fingers through a woman's hair at work is just begging for a sexual harassment visit from HR. Generally speaking leave flirting and such out of the workplace if you don't want to find ur way down the corporate chute rather than climbing the corporate ladder. As for the rest...even if she wasn't married, it sounds like a typical "friend zoning". Sorry. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chump Bailey Posted February 27 Author Share Posted February 27 Just now, Jabbyrwock said: As for the rest...even if she wasn't married, it sounds like a typical "friend zoning". Sorry. Perhaps - thanks! I forgot to mention the veiled references to blowing big ones (when she was blowing balloons up for an event at work) and "crushing" it - which she said to me often. Now, crushing it - have a good day at work. Sure...:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
philibusters Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 15 minutes ago, Chump Bailey said: So, I made the mistake of asking a female co-worker out to dinner and she's married. But before you tear me a new one, let me please attempt to place some perspective on things. Yes I'm wrong for doing so but hopefully some of you can relate because she is super hot and I'm extremely attracted to her. Still wrong but give a guy a break I am terrible at reading women. I am married now so I don't have to worry about it, but before I was married I never felt confident I could tell flirting from being friendly. So I sympathize with you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abdcskins Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 Chances are she just wanted to make you want her, and for her to feel wanted. Some women love attention. Did you know she was married before asking her out? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PleaseBlitz Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 22 minutes ago, Chump Bailey said: Yes I'm wrong for doing so but hopefully some of you can relate because she is super hot and I'm extremely attracted to her. Worthless without pics. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chump Bailey Posted February 27 Author Share Posted February 27 2 minutes ago, abdcskins said: Chances are she just wanted to make you want her, and for her to feel wanted. Some women love attention. Did you know she was married before asking her out? Yeah, I did. I'm wrong for that I know. Just now, PleaseBlitz said: Worthless without pics. I'm not kidding at all - her butt is exquisite I know the hair thing was very risky RE: HR but she said nothing. She's a cool chick and I'm very lucky for that and still employed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CobraCommander Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 That was your work wife. Well I take it you’re not married. But you were her work husband. You ruined that sacred bond. Also it’s been said once in here already but…. 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chump Bailey Posted February 27 Author Share Posted February 27 One additional thing. Another female co-worker was talking to me and she came over positioned herself between us and seemed upset - jealous? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spaceman Spiff Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 8 minutes ago, Chump Bailey said: One additional thing. Another female co-worker was talking to me and she came over positioned herself between us and seemed upset - jealous? Dear Penthouse Forums…. 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Wiggles Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TradeTheBeal! Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 (edited) One thing for sure about all women… They love a dude in a shiny, new car!! Edit: Of course, I’m talking about hot cars like Miatas and Wranglers. Not clown shoes like Volvos or minivans. Edited February 27 by TradeTheBeal! 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bang Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 A marriage is different. Don't. ~Bang 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Wiggles Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 34 minutes ago, TradeTheBeal! said: One thing for sure about all women… They love a dude in a shiny, new car!! Edit: Of course, I’m talking about hot cars like Miatas and Wranglers. Not clown shoes like Volvos or minivans. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CobraCommander Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 (edited) 53 minutes ago, TradeTheBeal! said: One thing for sure about all women… They love a dude in a shiny, new car!! Edit: Of course, I’m talking about hot cars like Miatas and Wranglers. Not clown shoes like Volvos or minivans. Ah yes Miatas and Wranglers. Both known for being cars loved by gay men. Perfect for wooing women. Edited February 28 by CobraCommander 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PokerPacker Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 2 hours ago, philibusters said: I am terrible at reading women. I am married now so I don't have to worry about it, but before I was married I never felt confident I could tell flirting from being friendly. So I sympathize with you. Maybe she's Canadian. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TradeTheBeal! Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 34 minutes ago, CobraCommander said: cars loved by gay men. I will, of course, cede to your expertise on this topic. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CousinsCowgirl84 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 (edited) 2 hours ago, Chump Bailey said: So, She would directly stare at my package A LOT and bend over in front of me. She would also wear these damn bodysuits and shake her butt in front of me as well. It's not as simple as she just labeling her as being mean and manipulative because I do not think she is at all. For example, when I was sick with Covid and bronchitis and was out of work for weeks, she showed me extreme kindness She was wearing slutty clothes begging for it. She stared at your package? Whatever dude… 2 hours ago, Chump Bailey said: . She also allowed me to run my fingers through her hair while she was sitting at her desk and did not make a flinch. she just layed there, didn’t say no You aren’t thinking full rapey but there is a smidge of rapiness in your thought process… Quote am very perplexed about her reaction, which was not good to say the least She was married and she knew how you felt after you fondled her hair. Women aren’t stupid. If she wanted to go out to dinner she would have asked you, it’s her choice to cheat on her husband, don’t try to talk her into it. You’re acting like a player. Edited February 28 by CousinsCowgirl84 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chump Bailey Posted February 28 Author Share Posted February 28 4 minutes ago, CousinsCowgirl84 said: She was wearing slutty clothes begging for it. She stared at your package? Whatever dude… she just layed there, didn’t say no You aren’t thinking full rapey but there is a smidge of rapiness in your thought process… She was married and she knew how you felt after you fondled her hair. Women aren’t stupid. If she wanted to go out to dinner she would have asked you, it’s her choice to cheat on her husband, don’t try to talk her into it. You’re acting like a player. LOL. Whatever partner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sacks 'n' Stuff Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 Is there an AI gif maker? This thread just gave me a great idea for one that doesn’t exist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destino Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 Advise? Don’t **** where you eat. You’ve already done enough to lose your job. Seriously. as for women, well this will apply to men as well, there is a group of people out there that like attention. They want to feel wanted. They exist in work places and it’s important to make note of them and avoid them like the plague. Refer to my earlier advice as to why. Also don’t date people like that because they’ll be running the same game on you. Their need to feel pursued isn’t going to end ever, that’s just how they are. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fergasun Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bearrock Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 She's married. That's not enough to stop the conversation? You asked her out and she said no. Seems pretty case closed to me. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mufumonk Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 That's someone's wife. You have no idea the damage that can do to a spouse. Despicable. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tshile Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 The thread title is an oxymoron Touching female coworkers in the workplace is petty stupid, don’t care about context. Stop touching your female coworkers. Maybe this is a good time for you to learn how to take rejection with a little grace, and just be a normal friendly coworker and not be all weird about it. also, stop touching your coworkers. 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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