NotSoSuper Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Alright lemme say this, i'm 16, sophomore in highschool but i've followed the redskins since i was about 7 so thats why im on here. Buttt to the girl problems. Alright the girl that I am attracted to is a senior, but i am significantly taller than her so its not to awkward. I talk to her and her Best friend on facebook all the time but when it comes to school i am a little socially awkward haha. I would like to approach her and ask if she wants to hang out but im not really sure how. And i didnt want to post this on a stupid ass teen forum so im counting on you guys for help Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terpskins10 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Bite the bullet and just do it. The worst thing that will happen is she turns you down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LD0506 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Bite the bullet and just do it. The worst thing that will happen is she turns you down. Which will be good practice for the future :pfft: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
d0ublestr0ker0ll Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 He feels bad for you son... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KDawg Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 "If you havin' girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a ***** ain't one" Sorry, the thread title suddenly gave me the urge to quote Jay Z. Just do it. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? At least you know that's the case then, instead of always wondering, "Hey, if I had a set, I could be dating the girl I always wanted. But since I don't, I'll never know what could have been." EDIT: d0uble... well done, sir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotSoSuper Posted August 26, 2011 Author Share Posted August 26, 2011 Yeah i knew that was coming with that thread title. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terpskins10 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Also if you're worried about being awkward - don't. It's high school. You're GOING to be awkward. No one in high school is smooth, no matter what people tell you now. You'll also learn that eventually. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sniffler Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Also if you're worried about being awkward - don't. It's high school. You're GOING to be awkward. No one in high school is smooth, no matter what people tell you now. You'll also learn that eventually. lol Great advice. I agree completely... The only advice I can add is to be confident but not ****y and if she says, "no"... respect her decision and act as if it doesn't bother you. While that might be easier said than done, especially if you really like her, it gets easier the more you get rejected. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abdcskins Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 This is what you say word for word: "Hey, do you wanna hang out sometime, maybe go get some food or something?" It is very harmless sounding and it is hard for a girl to say no to that. Just make it sounds genuine. Soon you will be making out with her and have your hands all over her supple breasts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spjunkies Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 They're evil.... stay sane by just watching the Skins. Wait.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KDawg Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 This is what you say word for word:"Hey, do you wanna hang out sometime, maybe go get some food or something?" It is very harmless sounding and it is hard for a girl to say no to that. Just make it sounds genuine. Soon you will be making out with her and have your hands all over her supple breasts. Whatever you do, don't say this: "Hey, do you wanna hang some time, maybe get some food and have a little sex?" and when she slaps you, definitely don't say back, "what, you don't like pizza?" That's not the route to go. Just saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotSoSuper Posted August 26, 2011 Author Share Posted August 26, 2011 Yeah i figured that hahaha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 They're evil.... stay sane by just watching the Skins.Wait.... Abstinence works do you really need the headaches?...or are ya trying to get rid of one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SC_RedskinsFan Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 If she chats with you on fb I would say the odds are pretty good she would hang out with you, as long as you don't act like a douchebag.... And I agree with abcskins on how you should ask her out. And if she says no, then just fire bomb her house and knife her tires Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destructis Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Whatever you do, don't say this: "Hey, do you wanna hang some time, maybe get some food and have a little sex?" and when she slaps you, definitely don't say back, "what, you don't like pizza?"That's not the route to go. Just saying. Why not....wanna **** ....has worked for me multiple times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeen80 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 Keep it simple. Just ask her if she wants to hang out. You got a 50/50 chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BRAVEONTHEWARPATH93 Posted August 26, 2011 Share Posted August 26, 2011 just don't use excessive "lols"...last thing you want is for her to think its all a joke Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
d0ublestr0ker0ll Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 How about a group date with mutual friends? Aww, high school. Regal cinema was where it was at back in the day. Sit next to her and you have 2 hours to pretend to watch the movie, all while conjuring up your next fake back scratch in order to move closer to her. The entire goal should be to hold hands. You have to at least attempt to. Don't go trying to yank her fingers apart from her forcefully clinched hand, just make sure you "somehow" find your hand close to hers halfway through the movie. And whoops, you "accidently" brush her hand while adjusting yourself in the seat. You can even make eye contact, see if she noticed and is smiling. If she is, expect one of those adrenalin rushes that makes your heart race. If you get too excited, pour some soda in your lap. Don't screw this up. Lastly, if she somehow resists the urge to attempt to hold your hand herself, you have to try to do it. One technique worked on my highschool sweetheart. I leaned over and whispered in her ear, "hey..........can I hold your hand?" This is a completely risky maneuver, but it worked. I only did it that way because I knew she wouldn't answer "no". It was 100% obvious we liked each other and it was a matter of time before we got together. The other girl I did the holding hands thing with was a tall, blonde, private school girl, who I wasn't so confident liked me. I did the same thing to her, except my second or third attempt (I know it wasn't the first attempt) worked...I went for broke and tried to hold her hand. I started subtle and kept gradually raising the contact between hands. Finally I peaked over to her and she was smiling, understanding what was going on. I went for it...score one for the Gipper. I'll even this out with a story about getting rejected (I'm still scarred from this ****). I loved this girl throughout middle school, she was the most popular, best athlete in the school, we were both 8th graders. After two damn years of knowing she didn't like me "like that", we really started to get close. We started to hang out after school, shoot hoops, play catch. [Wow. I can't believe I'm reminiscing about this]. I decided to call her over to the side of a crowded hallway one day, and my poker face was apparently God-Awful, because she knew what I was about to ask. She said, "no, I have to go..." before I even asked her anything. Then she just briskly walked away. I was like... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Die Hard Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Generally speaking.... if you're socially awkward and are only comfortable with talking to her through Facebook... how do you think you're going to have any chance with her? What's going to change between now and when you ask her? If she says "yes", are you going to somehow be comfortable around her then? If you're awkward around another girl... it's because you put her on a pedestal. Which means that you will never get the girl... she won't give you the time of day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeaconTheVillain Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[[ghost]] Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Just go up there and do it. Do it confidently. And use as few words as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Predicto Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Here's the secret of the ages, the one that I didn't learn until I was all grown up: Girls actually like us boys, and they want our attention, just as much as we do theirs. Really. It's an amazing thing. So don't be scared. Just talk with her, ask her questions, and LISTEN to the answers. You will be ahead of 99% of boys your age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boysetsfire Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Dude just do it. Looking back at high school now I laugh at myself. The worst she can say is no and you know what? There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You'll have more opportunities in the future. Believe it or not there are TONS of girls besides the ones just in your school. It's a huge world man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotSoSuper Posted August 27, 2011 Author Share Posted August 27, 2011 I get so nervous around her its almost embarrasing my heart starts to beat really fast, I tense up. I mean this isnt the type of girl I would want to bang because she's easy. I am actually in love with her as corny as that sounds haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bang Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Say what you just wrote. Simple as that. These things look so much more difficult at 16 than they actually are. Be honest. Say it, and that's it. Totoally understand the nerves, but if she's already your friend, use that to lean on. She already likes you and knows who you are. ~Bang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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