China Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 ‘The Blind Side' subject Michael Oher says adoption by Tuohy family was a lie and he was cut out of money from movie Former NFL star Michael Oher, the subject of the book and movie "The Blind Side," alleges that the couple who took him in as a teenager misled him into believing they were adopting him — and that they instead placed him in a conservatorship, according to a court filing Monday. "The lie of Michael's adoption is one upon which Co-Conservators Leigh Anne Tuohy and Sean Tuohy have enriched themselves at the expense of their Ward, the undersigned Michael Oher," said the petition to terminate the conservatorship in Shelby County Court in Tennessee. The story of Oher and the Tuohy family became the subject of an Oscar-winning film, “The Blind Side,” starring Sandra Bullock in the role of Leigh Anne Tuohy. The film, based on the Michael Lewis book of the same name, chronicled Oher’s life as a homeless child through his college football career and eventual NFL stardom. The Tuohys negotiated a deal with 20th Century Fox that left Oher without any payment for the rights to his name, likeness and life story, while the Tuohy family received a contract price of $225,000 and 2.5% of the film’s net proceeds, the petition states. The film has grossed over $300 million, the petition says. A $200,000 donation was also made to Leigh Anne Tuohy's charitable foundation. The petition said Oher made no money off the film, which was released after he completed his college career and would not have affected his NCAA eligibility. According to the petition, Oher does not recall signing the agreement for the rights to his life story. The document has a signature that appears to be his, but "nobody ever presented this document to him with any explanation," the filing says. The petition accuses the Tuohys of a breach of their fiduciary duty as conservators “so gross and appalling that they should be sanctioned by this court." Oher alleges that the summer before his senior year, after he became a legal adult in July 2004, the Tuohys offered him a place to live with their family in their home. The couple said they would legally adopt him, and Oher believed them, the petition said. Oher learned only in February that documents the Tuohys asked him to sign under the belief that it was part of the "adoption process" were actually conservatorship papers that would strip away his legal rights, the petition said. The Tuohys told him that because he was no longer a minor, the adoption paperwork was titled a conservatorship, the petition alleged. "At no point did the Tuohys inform Michael that they would have ultimate control of all his contracts, and as a result Michael did not understand that if the Conservatorship was granted, he was signing away his right to contract for himself," the petition said. Click on the link for the full article Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sacks 'n' Stuff Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 Read this story yesterday. If what’s alleged is true, that family is some scum. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
88Comrade2000 Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 They are denying taking money from him but aren’t denying the conservativorship. Father claiming they couldn’t adopt him since he was 18 but apparently that isn’t so. This will be settled in court. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riggo-toni Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 Oher obviously isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, so I will reserve judgement until facts fully come out. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinsmarydu Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 I seem to recall something like this coming out years ago, but thought it was settled. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxiumone Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 4 minutes ago, Riggo-toni said: Oher obviously isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, so I will reserve judgement until facts fully come out. I don’t think this is the case. I think he was naive and the family took advantage of this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sacks 'n' Stuff Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, Riggo-toni said: Oher obviously isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, so I will reserve judgement until facts fully come out. One of his big problems with the movie is that it portrayed him as unintelligent and people formed opinions of him based on that character. Edited August 15, 2023 by Sacks 'n' Stuff 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destino Posted August 15, 2023 Share Posted August 15, 2023 1 hour ago, Riggo-toni said: Oher obviously isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, so I will reserve judgement until facts fully come out. I don’t know if he’s intelligent or not, but this story feels incomplete. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOF44 Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 (edited) https://nypost.com/2023/08/15/michael-oher-accused-of-15m-shakedown-of-tuohy-family/ ‘Blind Side’ Tuohy family accuses ex-NFLer Michael Oher of $15M ‘shakedown’ before bombshell court filing Edited August 16, 2023 by HOF44 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
China Posted August 16, 2023 Author Share Posted August 16, 2023 Looks like this is going to get ugly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PleaseBlitz Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, Riggo-toni said: Oher obviously isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, so I will reserve judgement until facts fully come out. 2 hours ago, Sacks 'n' Stuff said: One of his big problems with the movie is that it portrayed him as unintelligent and people formed opinions of him based on that character. The book made him out to be pretty gifted academically (when put in the context of his terrible circumstances) and he’s griped about the movie’s portrayal for years. He’s said it hurt his football career and clouded how people view him. He has said that based on the film, some NFL decision-makers assumed he was mentally slow, when that wasn’t true in, you know, real life. Edited August 16, 2023 by PleaseBlitz 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Evil Genius Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 (edited) Oher was a top rated college prospect before the Tuohy's took him in. And yet the movie made it look like he didn't understand football and some 10yo kid and his mama had to teach him the basics. Edited August 16, 2023 by The Evil Genius 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PokerPacker Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 Offensive Tackles tend to be some of the smartest people on the field. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destino Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 2 hours ago, The Evil Genius said: Oher was a top rated college prospect before the Tuohy's took him in. And yet the movie made it look like he didn't understand football and some 10yo kid and his mama had to teach him the basics. Yeah that movie did the man no favors. Made him look like a moron that was rescued and molded, instead of promising kid in a tough spot that was helped. Would like to know how that creative process went though, who wrote the original script was it changed etc. Hollywood can mess up a great stories when given a chance so it’s hard to say who is responsible for what. what I will say is that if the family made millions off the movie and Oher didn’t see a nickel, that stinks to high heaven. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Evil Genius Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 (edited) It's the Hollywood white savior story that 'Murica eats up. Edited August 16, 2023 by The Evil Genius 2 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CobraCommander Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 16 minutes ago, The Evil Genius said: It's the Hollywood white savior story that 'Murica eats up. I gotta tell you I never did like that story. The movie pissed me off. As others have pointed out it made it seem like he was dumb and the white lady was Jesus Christ saving him. Always rubbed me the wrong way. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PleaseBlitz Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 If true, man. Doesn't get much lower than people who are already rich exploiting an underprivileged child, under the guise of adopting him, in order to steal his life story and make a bunch of money off it. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PokerPacker Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 9 minutes ago, PleaseBlitz said: If true, man. Doesn't get much lower than people who are already rich exploiting an underprivileged child, under the guise of adopting him, in order to steal his life story and make a bunch of money off it. The American dream. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TD_washingtonredskins Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 I just can't believe he didn't make any money off the movie. How is that possible? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDoyler23 Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 I never watched the movie because it looked like such white savior garbage. But I read the book. The family were a positive impact for sure in helping him have stability, helping him academically and getting him tested for a learning disability. They helped get him eligible for the NCAA through some pretty significant measures.. But the way he went to their college and the transactional nature of it all always was kind of a put off. The Tuhoys are/were both huge Ole Miss boosters and sure enough, it feels like some sort of payment. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cooked Crack Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 I always hated that movie. People around me telling me it's good would get the side eye. Not that surprised about what's going on now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PleaseBlitz Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 1 hour ago, TD_washingtonredskins said: I just can't believe he didn't make any money off the movie. How is that possible? Because people he trusted when he was a child lied to him and stole his rights to the money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TD_washingtonredskins Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 15 minutes ago, TheDoyler23 said: I never watched the movie because it looked like such white savior garbage. But I read the book. The family were a positive impact for sure in helping him have stability, helping him academically and getting him tested for a learning disability. They helped get him eligible for the NCAA through some pretty significant measures.. But the way he went to their college and the transactional nature of it all always was kind of a put off. The Tuhoys are/were both huge Ole Miss boosters and sure enough, it feels like some sort of payment. Yeah, it's certainly eye-opening, even in the movie. I have no idea how it really went down, but there's a scene where Oher gets mad at the family and asks if they only helped him so he would go play for their school. They tell him to play wherever he wants to. He eventually picks Ole Miss. Again, who knows if any of those things truly happened...but it was at least addressed in the movie. But, I'm also torn based on some things you mention. They provided stability, helped him become eligible (through significant measures), etc. All of those things very well could have been to land a great OT at their alma mater. I don't know. But it all directly resulted in Oher earning $25-30M in the NFL he probably wouldn't have without their assistance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sacks 'n' Stuff Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 3 hours ago, The Evil Genius said: It's the Hollywood white savior story that 'Murica eats up. 19 minutes ago, TheDoyler23 said: I never watched the movie because it looked like such white savior garbage. Oh come on. Like all of us white people have some sort of Christ complex when dealing with minorities. Forgive them brothers, for they know not what they say. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TD_washingtonredskins Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 5 minutes ago, PleaseBlitz said: Because people he trusted when he was a child lied to him and stole his rights to the money. But, I'm curious of the mechanics of it. Did they say to him "They're making a movie about us and we'll make sure you're taken care of" and then not take care of him? Or did they say to him "They're making a movie about us, make sure your agent covers you" and he didn't have his agent (remember, it came out after he was an NFL player) negotiate for royalties? It's more a curiosity of HOW he was left out of the pay day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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