SkinsFanRob Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I have been dating this girl for almost a month now but techniquely we are not Bf/Gf yet. In my past realationships I usually tried to move things along a bit quicker but I really like this girl and I dont want to scare her off by rushing things. So my question is how long should I wait to make things official? How long does everyone here wait? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coach Williams Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Let her make the move sir.... If you aren't in HS than you can't tell if she's with some1 else too.... *it waited 1 month* Been together now 7 years :cool: --------- EDIT: Disregard that ^^^ I totally just gave you a yes/no reply :doh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QBkilla56 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 5-6 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shilsu Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 After you bang her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinsfan07 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 After you bang her. works every time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinsTerps26 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 ask her when you both are really drunk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shilsu Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 works every time. You think I'm joking, but I'm dead serious. The percentage of her saying yes skyrockets. If she still says no, at least you hit that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RememberOsaka Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 You wait until you're 100% certain that you have exhausted all possibilities in finding another chick that will sleep with you. Then you ask her to be your girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Be yourself and do it when it feels right to you, Rob. Starting a relationship by "playing the game," isn't the best idea, IMO. If she's on the same page, great. If not, then there may be a reason for that. *edit* BTW, my divorce was final today, so I may not be the absolute authority on relationships. :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AllAboutSkins08 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Be yourself and do it when it feels right to you, Rob. Starting a relationship by "playing the game," isn't the best idea, IMO. If she's on the same page, great. If not, then there may be a reason for that. i completely agree. you gotta just trust your instincts and be yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Brave Little Toaster Oven Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 My last relationship started with us dating for a month and then I asked her to be my gf.... it lasted a week and a day.....and she tries to deny we were ever official :doh: :laugh: :laugh: Do what you want, if its meant to be, its meant to be Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Not real sure, I never had a official girlfriend or saw the need for the designation till I proposed(after six weeks dating)....I preferred the free agent status Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fan since a Fetus Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I think it depends on the woman. If she is confident and goes after things she wants, then she will let you know. If she is reserved and likes it when you make the first move, then you need to make the move. Who started your first kiss? You our her? That "could" be your answer. My wife is one of the confident ones. We dated for a month and she made the first move. We have been together for 11 years now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#98QBKiller Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 After you bang her. QFT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GibbsFactor Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I don't think you ever have to. You just see each other and it becomes natural. Don't label the relationship until you buy a ring. You ain't in HS anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blondie Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 You think I'm joking, but I'm dead serious.The percentage of her saying yes skyrockets. If she still says no, at least you hit that. And the reason she said no is because she wasn't impressed with the bat or skills of the batter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_cavalierman Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 And the reason she said no is because she wasn't impressed with the bat or skills of the batter. Who cares??? Especially since you already hit that...:hump: NEXT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinfan31 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 After you bang her. I love it:cheers: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. S Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 it probably doesn't matter, but as mentioned, depends on the type of girl. If she is outgoing, then she may ask first. If she is shy, then it's that much more comforting if you ask, chancer are it will help put her at rest and more comfortable around you anyways. Also, to people who said it doesn't matter, it also depends on the guy. Some guys like closure and knowing, while other guys don't really care. I've had plenty of friends who are usually good at sleeping around ask if they should ask this girl they're dating? Main point, just let it happen naturally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G.A.C.O.L.B. Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Eh whatever. Just go with the flow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burgold Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 After you bang her. I didn't realize Bang cartoons were so culturally important. So, in this ritual does the Banging mean you have to print out said cartoon or is emailing the link sufficient? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kuraitengai Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I don't think you ever have to. You just see each other and it becomes natural. Don't label the relationship until you buy a ring. You ain't in HS anymore. this one sounds good to me.....especially since this is how 99% of my relationships ended up starting. no talk of 'let be official' or 'let be bf/gf' we just spent time together until it was natural or until i didnt like it anymore and got her to break up with me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Touchdown Redskins Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 And the reason she said no is because she wasn't impressed with the bat or skills of the batter. A bad joke that didn't make very much sense in retrospect. It wasn't even tasteless, it was just bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chipwhich Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 If you are 20 years old, you are past the stage of asking a girl "Will you go with me, will you be my girlfriend" You know when she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PleaseBlitz Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 Just do it. If she likes you, she'll say ok, if she says no, then you are just spinning your wheels anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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