LeesburgSkinFan Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 http://www.newsandsentinel.com/page/content.detail/id/547710/Vienna-man-chooses-jail-over-ali---.html Dude's wife boinks some other dude and has that other guy's brat and HE'S responsible for the brat just because he's married to the whore that squeezed it out? How's that right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S.T.real,lights,out Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Wow, yea i wouldn't pay that much money for a kid who isn't mine. Especially if i found out i was cheated on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TradeTheBeal! Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Ain't love grand! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stadium-Armory Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Strange, it should be called "your child" support. Not "any random" child support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sportjunkie07 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Wow, yea i wouldn't pay that much money for a kid who isn't mine. Especially if i found out i was cheated on. he has never missed a child support payment (1300/month), even though the child is not technically his. what he is refusing to pay is alimony to his wife of 1800/month. i agree with him here. he sounds like a guy who has a good head on his shoulders. mom needs to get her act together and say "enough is enough". refuse all alimony payments and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinInsite Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Question, what's the difference between alimony and child support? Because the article said he still pays child support and consider the kid his son. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tweedr01 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Man, throughout that entire article I was thinking to myself what would I do if I were in that situation? It's not the kids fault, and as a dad I know the bond between father and child he had to have some kind of attachment to the kid. Lo and behold the end of the article he admits it doesn't matter if him and the kid share DNA, he knows he's the 'father', he loves the kid, but he doesn't support what the mother did. I'm sure he would love to support the kid by spending time and giving to the kid...just not the kids mom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Further, he's been there for the child, willingly pays child support for a kid that isn't his, and has this to say in spite of this massive crock of utter bull****: "I was there throughout the pregnancy. I spoke to him through his mother's belly. I was there the day he was born. And I have been there ever since. I love my son. He will always be my son, and I will always be his father. And I will always take care of him. And I will always pay his mother child support." If I had the $26,700 to bail him out, I'd do it in a damned heartbeat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Btubes18 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 That's some messed up stuff. Good for him though, standing up against the law. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 When and if I can ever start my NPO, this guy will be the first person I hire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tweedr01 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Further, he's been there for the child, willingly pays child support for a kid that isn't his, and has this to say in spite of this massive crock of utter bull****:"I was there throughout the pregnancy. I spoke to him through his mother's belly. I was there the day he was born. And I have been there ever since. I love my son. He will always be my son, and I will always be his father. And I will always take care of him. And I will always pay his mother child support." If I had the $26,700 to bail him out, I'd do it in a damned heartbeat. i know right, wasn't there someone on here from florida who was all about setting up some kind of organization to look out for dads/husbands in situations like this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 i know right, wasn't there someone on here from florida who was all about setting up some kind of organization to look out for dads/husbands in situations like this? Yes, that was my friend Capt. Rich. Unfortunately, start-up capital is a problem for both of us. If we had that, we'd be all over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sportjunkie07 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 maybe they should make her pay the $48.75/day it costs the taxpayer to keep him in jail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No Excuses Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 This is the video he made. Poor guy, I hope the state representatives can help him out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tweedr01 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Yes, that was my friend Capt. Rich. Unfortunately, start-up capital is a problem for both of us. If we had that, we'd be all over it. no kidding right? i bet it's a pretty penny to get it started up and because of the...um...'delicate' situations it involves i bet it means less banks are willing to help too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lombardi's_kid_brother Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Capt Rich is in jail? Better than death via hunger strike, I suppose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 no kidding right? i bet it's a pretty penny to get it started up and because of the...um...'delicate' situations it involves i bet it means less banks are willing to help too I haven't gotten to that point. I've dabbled a little bit in a business model, and unfortunately, it just doesn't seem sustainable. Ideally, I'd like to fly around the country paying the legal bills of men (especially low income) fighting divorce/custody/support cases. So the expenditures would be huge, but there's really no revenue source. And frankly, nationally, I don't think there's nearly enough "give a damn" about this issue to be able to rely on charitable donations. Men like this desperately need a voice though. Desperately. I think I may start working on a rally on the mall or something. It doesn't cost anything (except for the permit and set up) and it might lead to something bigger and better. ---------- Post added May-13th-2011 at 10:44 AM ---------- Capt Rich is in jail? Better than death via hunger strike' date=' I suppose.[/quote']Not humorous in the slightest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tweedr01 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 I haven't gotten to that point. I've dabbled a little bit in a business model, and unfortunately, it just doesn't seem sustainable. Ideally, I'd like to fly around the country paying the legal bills of men (especially low income) fighting divorce/custody/support cases. So the expenditures would be huge, but there's really no revenue source. And frankly, nationally, I don't think there's nearly enough "give a damn" about this issue to be able to rely on charitable donations.Men like this desperately need a voice though. Desperately. I think I may start working on a rally on the mall or something. It doesn't cost anything (except for the permit and set up) and it might lead to something bigger and better. A lot of great changes started with something like that. Not humorous in the slightest. He rarely is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elessar78 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Further, he's been there for the child, willingly pays child support for a kid that isn't his, and has this to say in spite of this massive crock of utter bull****:"I was there throughout the pregnancy. I spoke to him through his mother's belly. I was there the day he was born. And I have been there ever since. I love my son. He will always be my son, and I will always be his father. And I will always take care of him. And I will always pay his mother child support." If I had the $26,700 to bail him out, I'd do it in a damned heartbeat. We need to start a fund. I'm sure we could find 30,000 guys willing to donate a buck to this guy's cause. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 We need to start a fund. I'm sure we could find 30,000 guys willing to donate a buck to this guy's cause. Yeah, definitely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elessar78 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 Anyone here know how to setup a website with a donation system? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NavyDave Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 I'm surprised this woman is still alive when you look at the number of female dog types in the area that are single but still taken out for cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aREDSKIN Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 This is and will continue to be "legalized theft" by the gov't. It' is by far and away the greatest travesty of "justice" the courts (family courts) perpetrate on it's citizenry. And the absolute idiocy of this is the courts hold the "father" responsible for "child support" but the mother is in no way ever responsible for accounting how that "child support" is spent. Best interest of the children my ASS. "In the state of West Virginia if your wife gets pregnant and has a child and you find out it is not yours, in West Virginia and 38 other states you can stand in front of a judge and say this is not my child, and unless that woman relinquishes you from child support, you have to pay it," Caroline Keefe said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
capcrunch98 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 There are always 2 sides to every story, but if everything this guy is saying is true and he was a good husband and father for 19 years, then he really gets my sympathy. The system has truly failed him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rictus58 Posted May 13, 2011 Share Posted May 13, 2011 No matter your gender, if you cheat on your spouse, the cheater should NEVER be awarded Alimony. No matter the position it would put your lifestyle in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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