Ghost of Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 We all been there. I only been stood up once but it sucked and it was after a really good impromptu meeting. I think someone "got to her" about meeting me the second time. But oh well, I done better than her afterwards and sadly, that's the attitude you gotta take. You'll have better, you've had better. Brush the haters off and keep moving. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burgundy Burner Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 Well, I hated to hear this news - but glad to see that you were able to salvage the evening with a friend. Good things are coming your way. Just wait and see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special K Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 I completely disagree. When she apologizes say "that's ok, don't worry about it" and than walk away. after a couple steps, turn around and say "btw, for the sake a of the next guy that you stand up, be big enough to call him that day and tell him you aren't interested." Smile and walk away. Well, that's certainly a good point. In reality, I would probably deal with it in a similar manner you describe: "oh no problem" then ignore the person for the rest of their entire life, lol. Although personally, I wouldn't even do the turn-around thing, that's wasting too much effort. The reason I gave a bit harsher advice to SP, is that I've just seen a tendency of him, at least by the stories he posts here, to let girls walk all over him and be very insecure with them. Take this case, he had been stood up by her before apparently, yet he agreed to go out on another date with the wench. If he acted nice, my guess is that she would bat her little eyelashes, weasle her way back into his good graces and convince him to set up another date somewhere down the road and continue the cycle of getting crapped on. So that's why my advice was more in the "nip it in the bud" department. Let her know straight up that her jig is up with him and not to even try her little apology routine. Maybe give him come confidence, make him feel like he didn't accept getting crapped on, and make it a bit less of a grey area with her...like, don't even try. I don't know, whenever my friends ask me for advice, if they have a tendency to be insecure a bit with the opposite sex, or have a propensity to be easily manipulated into allowing a jerk to weasle him/herself back into their lives, I advise them to draw the line in the sand early on with that crap. But really, take whatever I say with a grain of salt...I just downed an entire bottle of red wine, hahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Springfield Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 Rule #1: Don't put it on a pedestal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kosher Ham Posted October 4, 2009 Share Posted October 4, 2009 Didn't you say that she stood you up once already ? Why are you sweating this chick ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spjunkies Posted October 4, 2009 Author Share Posted October 4, 2009 Didn't you say that she stood you up once already ? Why are you sweating this chick ? Honest answer? because she has one of the best behinds I've ever seen and I was hoping to see that thing without clothes covering it. That thing rivals Vida Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spjunkies Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 How the **** do you go from never being stood up before to having the **** happen twice within a week from the same *****!!! It's my fault for taking her word on what happened. Unbelievable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burgold Posted October 9, 2009 Share Posted October 9, 2009 Hmm... I see this ending badly. Spjunkies do not buy a hand gun in the near future... or with a wedding in about six months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duckus Posted October 9, 2009 Share Posted October 9, 2009 How the **** do you go from never being stood up before to having the **** happen twice within a week from the same *****!!!It's my fault for taking her word on what happened. Unbelievable What did she say happened last time? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spjunkies Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 Hmm... I see this ending badly. Spjunkies do not buy a hand gun in the near future... or with a wedding in about six months. Nah... I'm not a vindictive person, but this just makes me remember why I came up with my idea from a few months ago where you pay for what you want. I'm sick of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spjunkies Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 What did she say happened last time? She said that she lost my number and also said that she never got my call. I found out today that she had put the wrong number in my phone because some Hispanic dude answered when I called and said that I had the wrong number. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ixcuincle Posted October 9, 2009 Share Posted October 9, 2009 Move on to the next free agent, this obviously isn't working out, sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spjunkies Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 Move on to the next free agent, this obviously isn't working out, sorry I honestly can't figure out why the girl can't just be honest. It's not like I don't see the broad on a almost daily basis. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissance Posted October 9, 2009 Share Posted October 9, 2009 I honestly can't figure out why the girl can't just be honest. It's not like I don't see the broad on a almost daily basis. She's just not that into you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spjunkies Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 She's just not that into you. I get that, but it's not that hard to say "I have a boyfriend" or "I'd rather not" don't play silly games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissance Posted October 9, 2009 Share Posted October 9, 2009 I get that, but it's not that hard to say "I have a boyfriend" or "I'd rather not" don't play silly games. Boys do the same thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
btfoom Posted October 10, 2009 Share Posted October 10, 2009 Who cares It is what it is. Hard for you to believe now, but it's better to know now rather than later. Feel bad for yourself for the weekend (drinking lamp is definately lit), then move on come Monday. We've all been there, and we feel for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spaceman Spiff Posted October 10, 2009 Share Posted October 10, 2009 Ahhhh, spjunkies, I was rooting for ya dude. **** that noise, you deserve better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special K Posted October 10, 2009 Share Posted October 10, 2009 How the **** do you go from never being stood up before to having the **** happen twice within a week from the same *****!!! Sooooo, how many more times do you think you'll go through this exact same scenario before you figure things out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special K Posted October 10, 2009 Share Posted October 10, 2009 She's just not that into you. Haha! For the record, I loved that SATC episode. I get that, but it's not that hard to say "I have a boyfriend" or "I'd rather not" don't play silly games. No, all the signs are there, you are just delluding yourself into seeing what you want to see. That's why whenever you start these threads, we all give you the same advice yet you don't want to listen. Seriously, you keep delluding yourself here. Unfortunately, a lot of this you are bringing on yourself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DCranon21 Posted October 10, 2009 Share Posted October 10, 2009 SP...there are plenty of nice lookin chics down @ the Harbor, and now they have the W open too, where they have a rooftop club I think. Trust me, plenty of fish out there my man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grhqofb5 Posted October 10, 2009 Share Posted October 10, 2009 Hard for you to believe now, but it's better to know now rather than later.Feel bad for yourself for the weekend (drinking lamp is definately lit), then move on come Monday. We've all been there, and we feel for you. Disagree. It would have been much better if he had tagged it first. Then he could just tell all his friends that she smells like cabbage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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