Leonard Washington Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 http://www.nypost.com/seven/02262007/news/regionalnews/abort_shock_in_giant_divorce_regionalnews_jeane_macintosh_and_dan_mangan.htm?page=0 knowing me its probably a repost. February 26, 2007 -- Giants star Amani Toomer is splitting with his wife, claiming she not only reneged on a pact to have kids with the veteran wide receiver but went so far as to abort four pregnancies, according to bombshell court papers. Toomer has sued to annul his marriage to Dr. Yola Dabrowski, who won't get a dime if a judge upholds Toomer's argument that she committed "fraud" when they wed. She is seeking a divorce. The divorce trial is set to begin tomorrow in Hudson County, N.J., Family Court. Toomer, 32, alleges his wife refused to have the "big family" they had discussed before getting hitched in a Las Vegas civil ceremony in October 2002. "This false promise was never delivered," he charges in documents filed in court. Instead, Dabrowski "had up to four" abortions "against Toomer's wishes [and] without his consent," the Giant claims. The footballer also alleges that Dabrowski, 34, "refused to change her last name to Toomer," and won't cook, clean or take medication to treat her depression. And, she allegedly "disrespected [his] integrity and manhood." Dabrowski, a chiropractor and law-school student, vehemently denied the claims. In her filings for divorce, she alleges "extreme cruelty," accusing Toomer of being "relentlessly demanding . . . insecure and paranoid." The grid great insisted Dabrowski "cater to his every whim and need," she claims. And when she didn't want to have sex, Toomer acted "irrationally and outrageously" - once urinating on her clothes, and another time tossing her BlackBerry into the Hudson River. Dabrowski says she became "fearful" of having kids with Toomer, losing "all hope" that he would be "emotionally or physically available" to a child. She also charges that Toomer, who helped pay for her education, was an overbearing hubby who later insisted she "back-burner" her goals so she could manage his finances, travel with him and entertain his family. Despite months of mediation, Toomer and Dabrowski have not been able to reach a settlement. Dabrowski, who has been granted $11,000 a month in temporary support, wants permanent alimony and half the couple's marital assets. Toomer, who missed much of last season with a knee injury, is in the middle of a $20 million, five-year contract with the Giants. Saying "all he ever wanted was for [Yola] to love and respect him," Toomer's filings also include claims that his wife: * Quit marriage counseling after just two sessions, because she was "tired of lying to therapists." * Does not like watching his games, and often ridicules instead of praises his play. She "even had the audacity to poke fun . . . when he made a catch [and] stumbled without being tackled," he alleges. And, she "always chose to travel [on vacations] separate" from him, opting to be alone and meet other people, making Toomer feel "abandoned and unloved." * "Has begun smoking" although Toomer "has asthma and it is unhealthy for his profession to be near a smoker." * "Basically abandoned" their Toomer Foundation, a charity they set up to help needy kids........ more in the link here's another link on the story http://nfl.aolsportsblog.com/2007/02/26/no-kids-no-marriage-giants-toomer-will-divorce-wife-over-abort/ the chick is crazy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ptr77 Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 http://www.nypost.com/seven/02262007/news/regionalnews/abort_shock_in_giant_divorce_regionalnews_jeane_macintosh_and_dan_mangan.htm?page=0knowing me its probably a repost. here's another link on the story http://nfl.aolsportsblog.com/2007/02/26/no-kids-no-marriage-giants-toomer-will-divorce-wife-over-abort/ the chick is crazy! Toomer is a stand up guy and that ***** needs to go. If half of that is true then she needs to be booted out and get nothing from him. We all know the women gets half the assets and everything she wants in a divorce though, poor guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leonard Washington Posted February 27, 2007 Author Share Posted February 27, 2007 Toomer is a stand up guy and that ***** needs to go. If half of that is true then she needs to be booted out and get nothing from him. We all know the women gets half the assets and everything she wants in a divorce though, poor guy. aborting 4 pregnancies is pretty low and screams alternative motive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisterPinstripe Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Toomer is a stand up guy and that ***** needs to go. If half of that is true then she needs to be booted out and get nothing from him. We all know the women gets half the assets and everything she wants in a divorce though, poor guy. If its true that he paid for her education, she went on seperate trips, etc... Then she should not get anything. If half of that stuff is true, along with him paying for her to become a Doctor, she should get nothing but what she came with. Seems like a gold digger to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ptr77 Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Its sick how in a divorce the woman always gets too much, or things she never worked for. I agree she should get something, but when she had no kids (so she wasn't a stay at home mom) and her own job (that he paid for her school), what entitles her to his earnings? Every woman should be forced to sign a prenup imo, the world is a crazy place where a chick can abort 4 kids and treat her husband like garbage and in all likelihood still rob him blind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisterPinstripe Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Its sick how in a divorce the woman always gets too much, or things she never worked for. I agree she should get something, but when she had no kids (so she wasn't a stay at home mom) and her own job (that he paid for her school), what entitles her to his earnings? Every woman should be forced to sign a prenup imo, the world is a crazy place where a chick can abort 4 kids and treat her husband like garbage and in all likelihood still rob him blind. Yeah, in a situation like this I agree. She should not get a dime from him. He already paid for her degree so she could get a good job, and she wouldnt even go on vacation with him! This is one of those cases where she did nothing for him, and he did tons for her, so she shouldnt get any of the money that he had worked for and earned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boysetsfire Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Wow what a messy situation. If even half of that is true I feel bad for Toomer because he seems like a really good person. Who knows though? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G.A.C.O.L.B. Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Goddamn. Definitely that's some foul **** right there. I had a GF get an abortion without me knowing and that was bad enough but a wife?!?!?! And four?!?!?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkLadyRaven Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 If she wants to rip him off, she should have had his child(ren). Its basically instant money right there. She does in fact sound like a nut however Do you have any idea how many children unmarried Ray Lewis and how many women hes supporting? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenster95 Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 refused to change her last name to Toomer, and won't cook, clean That's enough for divorce right there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. S Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 If this is all true, I actually feel bad for Toomer. He is probably the one Giant to actually like on that team, and this is unfortunate for a guy like him. 4 abortions is crazy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSO Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 I hate how these things are all out in the open for everyone to see. They shouldn't be. I stopped reading it once I knew what it was... these things are fugly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWinzit Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 This is crazier then the Strahan split up story. What is in the water in Giant Land? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pointyfootball Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 "And when she didn't want to have sex, Toomer acted "irrationally and outrageously" - once urinating on her clothes, and another time tossing her BlackBerry into the Hudson River." Seriously - that's too funny to be made up! Maybe I'll try this. Not that my wife would ever not want to....I mean that's why us guys get married - sex every night! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurd Cudins Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 Toomer's gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that. This ***** won't get a dime. I hate people like her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sniffler Posted February 27, 2007 Share Posted February 27, 2007 As a Skins fan... I love it... keep the locker room distractions coming... As a man... I feel bad for the guy... somebody needs to ***** slap this whore... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oldskool Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Toomer's gay. And where did you come up with this little nugget, or is this just libel for libel's sake? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bubba9497 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 the typical NY couple :paranoid: holy crap, and I thought my wife and I had problems :laugh: we're a match made in heaven.... compared to these two Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No_Pressure Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Toomer's gay. No wonder he is such good friends with Strahan... Maybe Toomer was his mystery lover... [/gasp] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Punani Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 "And when she didn't want to have sex, Toomer acted "irrationally and outrageously" - once urinating on her clothes, and another time tossing her BlackBerry into the Hudson River." HAHAHAHAHAHA!! When you marry someone in a Las Vegas civil ceremony you should be expecting stuff like this. Would you really want to marry someone who would agree to get married in Vegas? It shows their character and thoughts on marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LOOPSKIN28 Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 "Does not like watching his games, and often ridicules instead of praises his play. She "even had the audacity to poke fun . . . when he made a catch [and] stumbled without being tackled," At least she has good taste as far as football....:gaintsuck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nicealot Posted March 1, 2007 Share Posted March 1, 2007 Geez! Every story has two sides, you know? I'm wondering what else was going on in that house to cause a woman to put herself and her body through four abortiions... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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