China Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Contract of Wifely Expectations FEBRUARY 17--This country, as you know, is filled with the deranged. And then there's Travis Frey, a 33-year-old Iowa man who is facing charges that he tried to kidnap his own wife (not to mention a separate child pornography rap). Frey, prosecutors contend, apparently is a rather demanding guy. In fact, he actually drew up a bizarre four-page marriage document--a "Contract of Wifely Expectations"--that sought to establish guidelines for his spouse in terms of hygiene, clothing, and sexual activities. In return for fulfilling certain requirements, Frey (pictured right) offered "Good Behavior Days," or GBDs. Each GBD, Frey wrote, could be redeemed by his wife to "get out of doing the things" he requested daily. A copy of the proposed contract, which Frey's wife never signed and later provided to cops, can be found below. While we normally point out the highlights of most documents, there are so many in this demented, and very graphic, contract, we really can't do it justice. So set aside ten minutes--and prepare to be repulsed. (4 pages) Click on the link above to read the "Contract" Wow. Just wow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonef1de Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 http://www.extremeskins.com/forums/showthread.php?t=145105 It was posted a couple days ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pskins Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 :doh: WTF???????????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoony Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Well, I just read some of that contract... I have a question Is it o.k. to laugh? I really want to... but not sure if it is appropriate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ancalagon the Black Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Jeez; I want to kick the **** outta this guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PleaseBlitz Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 This being a contract and all, is the term "half-assed" a legally binding term? J/k. What a dick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Punani2 Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 LMAO!!! This guy has major control issues. I bet you this guy had a military background... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coach Williams Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 My wife laughed so it's ok guys.....laugh away:laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xameil Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 so how long was this woman with this guy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redskin56 Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 I wonder how long she dated him prior to the "contract" negotiations............... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xameil Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Well since he's up on kidnapping and child porn charges, looks like he'll be filling in some "wifely expectations" soon for some big guy in prison. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GoCommiesGo Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 That was effing ridiculous. I can't believe she would still marry this guy after he presented her with this. Hell if I did that to my girlfriend she would laugh her ass off and just walk away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RabidFan Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Its called S&M and is a normal contract for those per some calling on Elliot on Wednesday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexRS Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Clearly this guy has some form of obsessive-compulsive disorder. At what point do you stop judging? How crazy does one need to be before people change from judgemental "he is an a-hole" to compassionate "he needs help?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoony Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Clearly this guy has some form of obsessive-compulsive disorder.At what point do you stop judging? How crazy does one need to be before people change from judgemental "he is an a-hole" to compassionate "he needs help?" One thing is clear... that ******* needs help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xameil Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Clearly this guy has some form of obsessive-compulsive disorder.At what point do you stop judging? How crazy does one need to be before people change from judgemental "he is an a-hole" to compassionate "he needs help?" This goes beyond obsessive compulsive. Not to mention...he's up for child porn too, so he needs to be put away for a LONG time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexRS Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 This goes beyond obsessive compulsive. Not to mention...he's up for child porn too, so he needs to be put away for a LONG time. "beyond" is not a good word because it implies "on the same scale," in a sense. I did not offer OCD as an all-encompassing explanation. Indeed he sounds like an individual troubled in more ways than one. It seemed that diligency of the contract and attention to detail suggested a strong OCD component.. :2cents: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xameil Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 "beyond" is not a good word because it implies "on the same scale," in a sense. I did not offer OCD as an all-encompassing explanation. Indeed he sounds like an individual troubled in more ways than one. It seemed that diligency of the contract and attention to detail suggested a strong OCD component.. :2cents: well, yeah part of it definitely had OCD components. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TD_washingtonredskins Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 What's wrong with someone knowing what they want and getting a notarized contract to ensure that?? OK, in all seriousness, this guy's childhood must have been downright scary! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexRS Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 What's wrong with someone knowing what they want and getting a notarized contract to ensure that??OK, in all seriousness, this guy's childhood must have been downright scary! Yeah, he probably grew up surrounded by uncertainty... It is so important for parents to treat their kids consistently... His parents were probably into substance abuse, so he would never know what he'd be dealing with at any given point. That's probably one of the reasons behind his desire to nail everything down and spell everything out... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destino Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Jeez; I want to kick the **** outta this guy.I had the same reaction. A truely disgusting person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottie Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 Wow, I'd love to have a woman sign that contract for me. I would have the greatest wife in the world. I'm joking of course. ...on second thought... maybe I'm not. BAD SCOTTIE!!!! :doh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Air Force Cane Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 He really let her off lightly. You should see my contract :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottie Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 He really let her off lightly. You should see my contract :laugh: :laugh: :notworthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mistymjohnson Posted February 22, 2006 Share Posted February 22, 2006 It is not called "S&M". For those of you who do not know what S/M is... It is a reference to those who are Sadistic and/or Masochistic. I believe what you were trying to refer this to is D/s (Dominance/submission). This is a lifestyle that can entail a per session experience or a Master/slave relationship. In fact, it isn't even THAT black and white. Anyway, those who are involved in a legitimate D/s lifestyle practice "SSC" (Safe, Sane, and Consensual)... Or some practice "RACK" (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink). From what I understand, this woman did not sign the contract (or 'rules' by his definition)... Then, this was not at all consensual... Therefore, this was not a legitimate D/s contract. Also, by her filing kidnapping charges on her husband, I would say that this wasn't even a legitimate D/s relationship (speculation/assumption here). I am not promoting D/s or S/m... However, I am trying to clarify a previous statement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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