I'll hold off on another trauma dump because I get the feeling that isn't always appreciated. I selected miserable because, not surprising, my family is a train wreck and Buzzette is stuck trying to clean up messes as they happen. At least my maternal side has started dropping like flies so I suspect there won't be much to deal with much longer. Bonus, due to a recent suicide, I'm now the oldest known living male in my bloodline. I'm 42.
Buzzette's dad side is okay. They're weird but I suspect it's probably like most families. Her mom is a more recent struggle. She was mostly normal earlier in our relationship. In the last decade, she started hanging out with a different crowd and now she is essentially MAGA but doesn't say it. She is everything you think of when you think Southern Maryland. That was manageable but the last 2 years or so, she has prioritized spending time with friends than her kids. So that's fun. Feels like the one 'normal' family I see falls apart too.