twa Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 My wife gave permission for my daughter (almost 16) to go out alone on a date with a young man (17)who just returned from Marine basic . So should I beat the old lady or the recruit? jk. But seriously,Any advice on handling this ? He is a good kid ,but the only date she has had so far she was accompanied by half my family. Teenage girls are a pain for this old fart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdsknbill Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Being that my girls are 10 and six, I haven't had to grapple with this. However, if you trust your daughter and respect this kid, I don't see a problem with it. Good luck! GOD! I can't wait until I have to deal with this :doh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NavyDave Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 No problem if it is a daytime date with a curfew and she has a cellphone so "Mom can call to see if she will be there in time for dinner." Remember though Marines are in the Navy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Art Monk Fan Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 My daughter just turned one and I'm already worried about her dating. I don't really have any advice, but I am taking notes for my own use. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinsNut73 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 ...beat the old lady and the recruit My daughters are 11 and 9, so I'm not at the point of them dating yet (though I can tell already the 9 yr old will be a problem when it comes to boys...a problem for them and me). ...anyone know where I can purchase a chastity belt? About the only advice I have is to get a hold of some tranquilizers...for yourself I'm sure it will be fine... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrapeApe Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 My daughter's only 5. Sorry. I imagine her first date will go something like this. Little boy comes to door to pick her up. I greet him frothing at the mouth like a rabid dog in an orange jump suit. Mumble something about jail and escape. Little boy wets himself and goes home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOF44 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 How did he end up completing basic at 17? Finish school early and join? GED and join? Get in trouble and join? For the first I'd be ok with it. The other two I would kill the old lady Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted December 14, 2005 Author Share Posted December 14, 2005 The tranquilizers might be a good idea :laugh: My first reaction was murder,but I have settled on maiming them for now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted December 14, 2005 Author Share Posted December 14, 2005 How did he end up completing basic at 17? Finish school early and join? GED and join? Get in trouble and join? For the first I'd be ok with it. The other two I would kill the old lady Finished early and got permission from his parents,went in at the same time as his brother. Never been in trouble,but it STILL sucks imo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NavyDave Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Brings back memories. Came home from bootcamp and wore my Uniform thru the neighborhood went to my girlfriends house at the time (she was 16) Dad was at work Mom was home and said her daughter was at the bowling alley which was two blocks away snuck up behind her tapped her on the shoulder and after her shock she tackled me and smothered me with kisses. I was respectful on the date however comma she did bless me with my little princess when she was 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted December 14, 2005 Author Share Posted December 14, 2005 You ain't helping ND :laugh: Ain't there a rule against fraternizing or something you could dig up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RabidFan Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 She ain't wearing jelly bracelets is she? that scares me and my girl is 21months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevenaa Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 If she is a "good girl", the first date isn't the worry. It's after they've been dating for a while that is troublesome. Set an early curfew and find out where they will be and when they will be there. Leave open the possibility of a drive by to check up on her. Then just trust you've taught her well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burgold Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 TWA, Support your military. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NavyDave Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 You ain't helping ND :laugh: Ain't there a rule against fraternizing or something you could dig up Sorry Her dad was strict I remember going to see her and the first month outside of school I could only talk to her at her house threw a crack in the door for 15 mins then after a throat clearing by her dad it was good bye. Then with patience I was able to sit in the front room for 15 mins before it was time to go I won him over to an extent. I reminded her family how it was her who came on to me and on valentines day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
China Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 ...anyone know where I can purchase a chastity belt? twa and SkinsNut, here ya go: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinsNut73 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 That'll work.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Punani2 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Do you know how horny people are after basic training? I had to go to a class on STDs after I graduated basic and went on to tech school. I rates of STDs for new recruits went through the roof right after basic training. The instructor for my class said "People are like rabbits after basic" Good luck with your daughter. hahahahah I'm so glad I have two sons.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dks1240 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 16. yikes. im not even going to tell you what i was doing with guys when i was 16 because you wont let her leave the house. advice: meet the guy before they go anywhere (that's a given), make sure he knows her curfew and also stress he better drive well with her in the car, and IF THEY ARE GOING TO HIS HOUSE MAKE SURE HIS PARENTS WILL BE HOME. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeanCollins Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Twa, I don't have any daughters, but when I was 18, a father of a girl I was picking up for a first date made a huge impression on me. The girl wasn't quite ready (they never are) and he invited me into the house then ushed me into the "study" and told me have a seat while he grabbed a drink. I could hear him behind me making a hi-ball, then a moment later he said, "I'd like you to have my daughter home by 11:00", right about then he was squeezing the crap out of my shouldler muscles (traps) next to my neck, it was unbearable. I looked at his hand and he was wearing black leather gloves. Then he repeated himself, "home by 11:00pm, not 11:01 or 11:02, but 11:00" I cried out a whimpering 'yes sir 11:00'. All I could think about was the guy strangling me, and I brought her home early. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dks1240 Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Twa, I don't have any daughters, but when I was 18, a father of a girl I was picking up for a first date made a huge impression on me. The girl wasn't quite ready (they never are) and he invited me into the house then ushed me into the "study" and told me have a seat while he grabbed a drink.I could hear him behind me making a hi-ball, then a moment later he said, "I'd like you to have my daughter home by 11:00", right about then he was squeezing the crap out of my shouldler muscles (traps) next to my neck, it was unbearable. I looked at his hand and he was wearing black leather gloves. Then he repeated himself, "home by 11:00pm, not 11:01 or 11:02, but 11:00" I cried out a whimpering 'yes sir 11:00'. All I could think about was the guy strangling me, and I brought her home early. :laugh: :laugh: im gonna make my husband do this. what a great idea! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncsuapex Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 Or just do what I told my brother to do when his daughter was around 16 or so. I was going to buy him a shotgun for Christmas and told him to have it out and be cleaning it when the boy came over to pick her up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted December 14, 2005 Author Share Posted December 14, 2005 Oh, you can bet I will intimidate the boy,since he knows me and my son already it shouldn't be too hard...Probably bring out the knives for sharpening when he arrives I just think back to when I was 17 :nutkick: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeHateIggles Posted December 14, 2005 Share Posted December 14, 2005 I wouldn't mess with a Marine. Especially one half my age.... :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted December 15, 2005 Author Share Posted December 15, 2005 I wouldn't mess with a Marine. Especially one half my age.... :laugh: In the unlikely event I could not handle things , I can always call on my son the marine(aka Superman) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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