Commander PK Posted February 24, 2005 Share Posted February 24, 2005 Originally posted by Henry Do dirty movies count? Tarhog got it in one. I've been with my wife and loyal for 14 years now, and the secret to male monogamy is really very simple: Don't put yourself in dangerous situations. It's not "just lunch" or "just a phone call." If you find yourself saying something like that to yourself, call it off right then. Also, make it clear to the women you know (co-workers, freinds, whatever) that you are not 'that guy.' Don't flirt just to see if you've still got it. Be proper and respectful around women. I've learned over the years that for some reason that's a signal to them you aren't the cheating type. Go figure. I'm a guy just like all other guys. In the wrong place at the wrong time I suppose I could do something stupid. I just make damn sure I'm never at that place at that time. Either that or I'm just damn ugly. Henry, I agree 100%. I for the most part have removed myself from just about ALL temptation. I don't go to bars anymore. I've pretty much given up my social life, and I'm not even married yet. Never say never, but I'd like to think I'd be able to pass up temptation. I'm known with my female co-workers, as the sweet, faithful, guy. Who is sticking with his girlfriend while she's at Medical school getting her Doctorate. Isn't that sweet! Unfortunately, this seems to make me more of a "catch" to the women I work with. I think they have a poll going to see who can be the first to get me to screw around. Isn't that sad? They wanna corrupt me! :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phat Hog Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 Originally posted by Jody I've cheated on every girlfriend I've ever had. Although, I have never cheated on my wife. And I never will. Ditto that, and I've been married for over 10 years. Guess I got it out of my system. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monte51Coleman Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 I'm waiting for the next poll: Have you ever cheated on your favorite pizza maker? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdsknbill Posted March 2, 2005 Share Posted March 2, 2005 Nope. Been with my wife for almost tweny years. :dance: Tempted? Who hasn't? It all comes down to moral fiber. I don't think that I could look her in the eye if I ever did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost of Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Damn, Pain, in light of recent events your post makes me even more sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jody Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Originally posted by Phat Hog Ditto that, and I've been married for over 10 years. Guess I got it out of my system. I just found the the right right one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brave Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Originally posted by Ghost of Nibbs McPimpin Damn, Pain, in light of recent events your post makes me even more sad. I don't know, Ghost. Now he's free to be "corrupted!" Could be some positives there. Pain, don't tell'em you're single. Make them think THEY'RE the one(s) to make you stray. :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commander PK Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Originally posted by Ghost of Nibbs McPimpin Damn, Pain, in light of recent events your post makes me even more sad. Ain't it the truth. It's funny sometimes how things work out. Well, I think I'm on the road to recovery now. The self loathing, and pity party seems to be coming to an end. I doubt there won't be some relapses, but I'm trying guys. I think I'm gonna leave the females alone for a while, and just concentrate on getting myself together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commander PK Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Originally posted by Brave I don't know, Ghost. Now he's free to be "corrupted!" Could be some positives there. Pain, don't tell'em you're single. Make them think THEY'RE the one(s) to make you stray. :laugh: I don't think I want much in the way of female companionship right now. I think I'm gonna let em be. I'm just gonna take some time for me now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roqnap1 Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Been cheated on a few times...can't say I wish that feeling on anyone...which is why I never have Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamthecam36 Posted March 15, 2005 Share Posted March 15, 2005 now when ya'll cheated did you tell the person? because i didnt and i wont Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walking Deadman Posted March 15, 2005 Share Posted March 15, 2005 No, It is all about loyalty and (this is corny but bare with me) "The Golden Rule". You don't want someone to do this to you, love the person who you are with. If you don't love them, then end the relationship and see whoever you want guilt free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The President Posted March 15, 2005 Share Posted March 15, 2005 Originally posted by iamthecam36 now when ya'll cheated did you tell the person? because i didnt and i wont If you didn't get caught is it really cheating? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
halter91 Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 Not here, I've never cheated on anyone I've been in a relationship with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ancalagon the Black Posted March 17, 2005 Author Share Posted March 17, 2005 Originally posted by Painkiller I'm known with my female co-workers, as the sweet, faithful, guy. Who is sticking with his girlfriend while she's at Medical school getting her Doctorate. Isn't that sweet! Unfortunately, this seems to make me more of a "catch" to the women I work with. I think they have a poll going to see who can be the first to get me to screw around. Isn't that sad? They wanna corrupt me! :laugh: Painkiller: Given recent developments, I really hope you've been corrupted! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commander PK Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Originally posted by Ancalagon the Black Painkiller: Given recent developments, I really hope you've been corrupted! Nope, not yet. I'm more open to the idea now though, more then I was a few weeks ago anyway. Progress has been made, but I'm still hurtin. I keep myself busy, passing the time. I'm actually gonna be moving into a new townhome soon in early April. A change of scenery, and my own place devoid of roommates with girlfriends, would do me some good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamSneed36 Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 nope never Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovellj Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Once...in a long term relationship back in high school....just a kiss/dancing, but even then in the middle of it I had to break it off and tell the girl that I couldn't do that to my girlfriend...I felt (and still feel) so badly about the dishonesty that I can't even come close anymore...sad thing is, that relationship ended because she cheated on me in college (even though now we're good friends again)...and I've been cheated on twice since... I have real problems with trust ever since with the girls...but the best advice I can give is to be selective, and don't allow yourself to be a doormat. I made that mistake too many times...if you make it evident to someone else that you value them above your values and your emotion, the chances are pretty good that they'll push the limits of what is acceptable, which will bring you nothing, but pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Major Harris Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 one time my whole life, and it was the worst feeling ever. i was drunker than i've ever been, not that that's an excuse because i put myself in the situation. i've never felt so low. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Idaho fan Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 Wouldn't want it done to me - wouldn't (haven't) done it to someone else.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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