SkinsOrlando Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Seriously, they expect men to listen and memorize every damn thing they say. Yet they can't even follow simple instructions(for reference see the strawberry milk and mop thread). Try to give a woman advice, forget it, you get the standard "I know what I'm doing" answer. Chime in ladies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianm23 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Women want you to LISTEN, not to give them advice or solve their problems. First rule you should learn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMike619 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 whats the back story SO? Was your GF watching Hannah Montana when you were trying to talk to her and she didnt remember? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slacky McSlackAss Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 whats the back story SO? Was your GF watching Hannah Montana when you were trying to talk to her and she didnt remember? I didnt know they dubbed Hannah Montana in Russian now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kilmer17 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RammsteinSkins Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 It's because they are too busy talking, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toe Jam Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 It's because they are thinking about shopping and don't have time to hear your BS. This is legit. I swear, if I could get a doctor to find the part of the brain that makes women think about shopping, make-up, and diaper genies, I'd have him remove it. Bet they would listen to you then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMike619 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I didnt know they dubbed Hannah Montana in Russian now. he cant afford speakers on his TV anyways so it doesnt matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinsOrlando Posted November 19, 2008 Author Share Posted November 19, 2008 whats the back story SO? Was your GF watching Hannah Montana when you were trying to talk to her and she didnt remember? I didnt know they dubbed Hannah Montana in Russian now. he cant afford speakers on his TV anyways so it doesnt matter. There will come a time when these jokes are no longer funny, however that is yet to happen. Very nice work, peckerheads. Here's the backstory, my girlfriend has been very tired lately(not like trying to not have sex tired) I mean literally sleeping for 14 hours a day type stuff. She has also been suffering from nsoebleeds(no it's not coke binging either). According to what I've been reading, it's all relevant to her eating habits, that she's not getting enough calories, vitamin K and fruit. So I of course attempt to tell her this and the answers I get are as follows. 1. I'm just tired alot so I sleep 2. I've never heard that before 3. I eat plenty, my diet is fine 4. **** you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CandaceM23 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Maybe she just doesn't want your help? Maybe she's afraid of the doctor's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toe Jam Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 There will come a time when these jokes are no longer funny, however that is yet to happen. Very nice work, peckerheads.Here's the backstory, my girlfriend has been very tired lately(not like trying to not have sex tired) I mean literally sleeping for 14 hours a day type stuff. She has also been suffering from nsoebleeds(no it's not coke binging either). According to what I've been reading, it's all relevant to her eating habits, that she's not getting enough calories, vitamin K and fruit. So I of course attempt to tell her this and the answers I get are as follows. 1. I'm just tired alot so I sleep 2. I've never heard that before 3. I eat plenty, my diet is fine 4. **** you You can't talk to a woman about health. They don't want to hear it. What you can do is find the most disturbing episodes of House, ER, or Grey's Anatomy and force her to watch them. Usually on the those shows, the smallest symptoms turn out to be something serious. So maybe that will force her to care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMike619 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 candace is on to something. maybe she is afraid to hear bad news from the doctor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinsOrlando Posted November 19, 2008 Author Share Posted November 19, 2008 candace is on to something.maybe she is afraid to hear bad news from the doctor. Maybe she just doesn't want your help? Maybe she's afraid of the doctor's? Very possible, her Mom died from cancer last June. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMike619 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Very possible, her Mom died from cancer last June. oh hell ya dude. she might just be depressed because of the holidays coming up. it is the first one without her mom, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CandaceM23 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 If she's feeling like crap, sleeping non-stop, bleeding out the nose and it's been happening for more than a few days, I'd tend to believe that something is wrong. Hell, anyone with half a brain would think that something is 'off.' I know that I shouldn't joke around about this, but maybe she's a big dummy? I dunno ... maybe she doesn't want to go to the doctors because she really doesn't think that something is wrong. Or she really doesn't like going to the doctors. Or this is something that is normal for her and she hasn't told you about whatever existing condition she has. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toe Jam Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 oh hell ya dude. she might just be depressed because of the holidays coming up. it is the first one without her mom, right? Yeah, that could actually be right. Disregard my TV show theory. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CandaceM23 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Ok ... just saw the mom died from cancer comment. Maybe you should go home and try to talk to her tonight. Just be honest with her and tell her that you're worried about her and that you're concerned about her well being. List off the things that make you worried, tell her that you don't want to see her in pain or out of it and that you'd feel better if she went to a doctor. Tell her that you'll even go to the doctor's with her if she wants you too. Sometimes a genuine sit down does a lot of good. She could very well tell you that she's depressed - and if you really like this girl then you need to tell her that you're going to do whatever you can to be there for her this holiday season - and you need to mean it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patrick86L Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 The over sleeping and feeling tired all the time are definite signs of depression especially if she recently lost a family member, but it doesn't explain the nose bleeding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandymac27 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Very possible, her Mom died from cancer last June. She's more than likely scared. Just try and be supportive, as it sounds like she could be depressed too. Either way, she should go and get checked out. More than likely it's nothing serious and she will feel a lot better after she goes. Try to talk her into going if you can. Why don't you offer to go with her? Maybe that will help her to feel a little more relaxed when she goes? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMike619 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Ok ... just saw the mom died from cancer comment.Maybe you should go home and try to talk to her tonight. Just be honest with her and tell her that you're worried about her and that you're concerned about her well being. List off the things that make you worried, tell her that you don't want to see her in pain or out of it and that you'd feel better if she went to a doctor. Tell her that you'll even go to the doctor's with her if she wants you too. Sometimes a genuine sit down does a lot of good. She could very well tell you that she's depressed - and if you really like this girl then you need to tell her that you're going to do whatever you can to be there for her this holiday season - and you need to mean it. in other words, fight your every normal instinct and be compassionate and understanding ya big ********!! I would just let her do all the talking and no matter what she says just listen. no judging, no comments back, just let her spill her freaking guts. when she's done she will most likely be open to dialogue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rdskn4Lyf21 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I can't understand this either. When I say quit nagging me and asking the same question every day and giving me attitude, I mean it. When I keep saying all of that pushes me away more and more I mean it. When I say one day I'll be gone if it keeps up, I mean it. Now that that time may come, she won't leave me alone. Why not listen in the first place? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Toe Jam Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 I can't understand this either.When I say quit nagging me and asking the same question every day and giving me attitude, I mean it. When I keep saying all of that pushes me away more and more I mean it. When I say one day I'll be gone if it keeps up, I mean it. Now that that time may come, she won't leave me alone. Why not listen in the first place? Because it's you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rdskn4Lyf21 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 Because it's you. :finger: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinsOrlando Posted November 19, 2008 Author Share Posted November 19, 2008 Ok ... just saw the mom died from cancer comment.Maybe you should go home and try to talk to her tonight. Just be honest with her and tell her that you're worried about her and that you're concerned about her well being. List off the things that make you worried, tell her that you don't want to see her in pain or out of it and that you'd feel better if she went to a doctor. Tell her that you'll even go to the doctor's with her if she wants you too. Sometimes a genuine sit down does a lot of good. She could very well tell you that she's depressed - and if you really like this girl then you need to tell her that you're going to do whatever you can to be there for her this holiday season - and you need to mean it. I might be an ass Candace but I'm not a prick, I wouldn't say something like that I don't mean, . Back on topic. Depression is what I originally thought but when she's up and about she's damn near happy as can be and she's not one to fake anything. As far as the doctor goes, I could sit down and ask her to go, let her know I'd like her to go and that I'd go with her and we'll see how that goes. Much appreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMike619 Posted November 19, 2008 Share Posted November 19, 2008 good luck bro... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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