CrabR Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 I was wondering if anyone else ever contacted a long lost Love/friend of the opposite sex and what was the outcome, positive or negative experience? I have been thinking about a girl I last seen 22 years ago, we were best friends [non sexual relationship] for several years right before I got married. I am not looking for a relationship, I am just wondering how she has been all these years and to reminisce about the old gang. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kilmer17 Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 If you are still married, this is the worst idea of all time. Bec ause there is absolutely NO way you can make your wife understand why you want to do this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonJeremy Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 I tried...she is married and I don't know her new last name. Plus, her husband was jealous of me back in college and I am sure it would cause problems if I found her. So, I didn't try anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leonard Washington Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 i had someone look me up. it was akward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoony Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 i had someone look me up. it was akward. Was it a guy or something? :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinsNut73 Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 I've never looked someone up. I've thought about it many times...specifically an old childhood buddy. Just want to see what he's been up to...see if he's okay after all these years. I just haven't brought myself to do it yet, and I'm not sure I will. I just have this "leave things alone" sense about the whole situation. Several years back I did have a high school girlfriend look me up...it was kind of awkward. We e-mailed back and forth a couple of times just updating each other on what life was like...but it dropped soon after that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaFunky1 Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 I had a female friend from high school look me up around Christmas in 2004. I had not talked with her in 9 years. I wasn't too sure of her motives at first since she is married and we fooled around a bit in high school, but she just wanted to catch up. I talk with her from time to time, but since I am single I avoid time alone with her unless in a public place. It was nice seeing her again and wasn't that bad (took a mutual friend from high school with me to meet her again the first time just incase she wanted something else). I wouldn't seek out an old female friend if I were married, except for maybe a class reunion. I don't think or see how it would be productive to the current marriage... just my two cents. Peace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TD_washingtonredskins Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 i had someone look me up. it was akward. From how long ago, Friday? You're 17!! Just kidding...but it couldn't have been too long ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pez Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 Huly looked me up after a number of years back home here...... now we are married :doh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KevinthePRF Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 Police do this all the time. If you drive we can find you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeorama Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 Was it a guy or something? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeanCollins Posted November 1, 2005 Share Posted November 1, 2005 Allot of people sign up at classmates.com under thier respective high school. I've had good experiences contacting/being contacted thru there. I've been to couple high school re-unions with and without my wife. I always tell her when I'm having some dialog with an old female (girlfriend or not), and she doesn't have a problem with it. But she is very secure in our 13 year relationship that has been exceptionally non-problematic, which is probably not the norm. So use your best judgement, but in my opinion, if handled properly, this shouldn't be a problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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