Ya, this isn't the first religious thread so I kinda just said what was in my mind again. I saw what you said, then felt how I felt without clarifying, my bad.
I'd argue a lot of people don't follow Christian values because they dont know what they are. And taking it word for word versus thinking about why its really in there is just as dangerous as claiming you know what's in there without reading it at all, imo.
In a country that doesn't emphasize critical thinking in education until maybe college, this won't change anytime soon. Bae knows there's no way Moses wrote the first five books if the last one describes his death, I don't need to tell her that, which is one less thing I gotta worry about.
One of my coworkers is from Pakistan, him and his wife are Muslim, and he mentioned how even though he grew up in the states one day he wanted to go through the Quran and almost blew a gasket trying to figure out how to follow it word for word or if that was the right thing to do. His dad told him to pump breaks and just try to be a good person, if you see something in there that helps you do that, good.