codeorama Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Originally posted by Kilmer17 Hopefully she had to work late or some other legit reason. You definitely should avoid calling her a second time. You don't think he should call every hour until he reaches her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakofthesouth Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 No dude, don't call her again. If you really want to, wait 3 weeks, or right before this 3 doors done (i mean down) concert. That way, you'll have something specific that you are calling about. Don't just call her for no reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kilmer17 Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 no way. If she doesnt call you back, let it go. And if she calls a few days before the show, tell her she missed out (even if you still have an extra). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeorama Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 I think he should start following her around to see what she's doing that so important that she hasn't called back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKurp Posted October 28, 2003 Author Share Posted October 28, 2003 Guys, I NEVER call a girl more than once. If she doesn't return my message, I'm done. freakofthenorth, Before the days of caller-id, I might agree with you on not leaving a message. However now-a-days it just looks like you're a stalker if you keep calling but don't leave a message. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakofthesouth Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Originally posted by TheKurp Guys, I NEVER call a girl more than once. If she doesn't return my message, I'm done. freakofthenorth, Before the days of caller-id, I might agree with you on not leaving a message. However now-a-days it just looks like you're a stalker if you keep calling but don't leave a message. I didn't say you should keep calling! Hey man, I hope it works out for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKurp Posted October 28, 2003 Author Share Posted October 28, 2003 freak, If you don't leave a message, you've got to call again, no? Or are you proposing that you call once, don't leave a message, and never call again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakofthesouth Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Originally posted by TheKurp freak, If you don't leave a message, you've got to call again, no? Or are you proposing that you call once, don't leave a message, and never call again? No. I just think that women want to be pursued, yet not bothered. They're friggin' weird. There's no doubt about it. In fact, if you did just call once, and she saw, and you didn't leave a message, and then you didn't call for quite a few days, then she would be very intrigued by that. My first year in college, I was out at a party, talking to this girl that I met (I was younger then!). It turned out she was Miss Teen USA. No joke. So, we exchanged numbers. I NEVER CALLED HER. She couldn't understand it! So, she called me about two weeks later, and then called me again. And then we went out. 'Nuff siad. I would just say call about specific things. And be decisive when you do talk w/ her. Like I said bro...don't 'sweat' her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKurp Posted October 28, 2003 Author Share Posted October 28, 2003 Originally posted by freakofthenorth My first year in college, I was out at a party, talking to this girl that I met (I was younger then!). It turned out she was Miss Teen USA. No joke. So, we exchanged numbers. I NEVER CALLED HER. She couldn't understand it! So, she called me about two weeks later, and then called me again. And then we went out. 'Nuff siad. You da man! :notworthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakofthesouth Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Originally posted by TheKurp You da man! :notworthy It was a freak accident. Trust me! But, I met my current girlfriend using this perspective. I knew her for awhile. We met in college. Eventually, we had a class together. We studied from time to time, etc. Then, I invited her to a Ben Harper concert, and we hit it off. It was really great. But, even after that point, I just let it take it's course. We actually didn't really start dating until a month later. If I had been too much, I know I would not be w/ her today. I just pretended I didn't really care, even when I really had been pursuing her for well over a year. Now, we've been living together for two years, and we moved up to the city here together. Just some ideas. Like I said, good luck Kurp. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TD_washingtonredskins Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Tell her you love her on her VM. Girls LOVE that. hahaha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riggo-toni Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 nm... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKurp Posted October 28, 2003 Author Share Posted October 28, 2003 Riggo, I'm having another buddy (who was also there Friday night) call my friend and casually ask about what he thought of the girl. This way he's more apt to be honest about it than if I were to ask him. The call is in (message left) but no return call yet, so from that aspect I still don't know what's up. However as you can see from the way the thread has progressed, it may very well be a moot point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gridironmike Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Kurp, if he is your buddy, be honest with him. I'd want my friends to know that the girl they are interested in (??) is interested in other men (if she is). "Hey buddy, knockout gave me her phone number when we all went out. I've been sweatin' it but thought you should know if you are interested in her. If you're not interested, and you were trying to get us together, it worked. If you are interested, you need to know about things like this." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JMac Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Update time Kurp! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKurp Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 Nothing to report SkinsFan. I'll admit, I'm a little puzzled by this one. I've asked and gotten numbers before, left a message, and not received a phone call back, but just chalked it up to the girl being polite by giving her number when asked. A couple of months ago I even had a girl ask for my number but she never called (which I'm thankful for because I woudn't have called her back, if you know what I mean) . This one though, willingly gave me her number despite me never specifically asking for it. 1. I did find out yesterday that she's "going" through a divorce, not actually divorced, although she's not currently living with her soon-to-be ex-husband. Given that, I'm not exactly sure I'd want to get involved at this point. Then again, beauty tends to make one toss aside better judgement. 2. She did mention last Friday night that she was headed up to some small town just south of Jacksonville the next day to visit her mom. There was also some talk about her going up in anticipation of the Florida-Georgia game (since she's a Gator alumni). While it didn't occur to me at the time, it may be that she's staying the week with her mom and then going to see the game in Jacksonville this Saturday. Of course I did call her cell phone and not her home phone, so I'm guessing she still got the message. Anyway like Freak says, I'm not going to sweat it, or her. What will be will be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kilmer17 Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Run away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And fast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakofthesouth Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Good work Kurp. It will all work out bro. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKurp Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 Originally posted by Kilmer17 Run away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And fast. No doubt that would be the smart thing to do Kilmer. I'm guessing that's exactly her sentiments. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Om Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Be patient, Kurp. The PI she hired to check you out hasn't finished the background search, yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheKurp Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 I'm guessing he's still busy working on the Darrell Russell case Om. In any case, a background check spells doom for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freakofthesouth Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Originally posted by TheKurp I'm guessing he's still busy working on the Darrell Russell case Om. In any case, a background check spells doom for me. If the background check leads her to this thread, you're screwed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Om Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Originally posted by freakofthenorth If the background check leads her to this thread, you're screwed! Well, that was the general idea, right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henry Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 The thing about diapers is, you've got to dispose of them immediately. Otherwise, that smell NEVER goes away. Anyway, we put each one in it's own individual plastic bag and them immediately take it out to the outside trash can. The neighbors hate us, but it makes it much easier to get our freak on, and that's really what's important here. Next thing is to make sure to run the kids around a lot during the day so they pass out nice and early. If you let even one of them nap after 1pm, forget about it. Following these simple steps may get you some scootie as often as once a week, provided you aren't completely exhausted, sick, or generally disgusted with your woman because she's been covered in puke and snot all week long and frankly, has been letting herself go lately ... ... oh wait. you mean this isn't the married guy's thread? My bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Om Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 That's not funny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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