squatch66 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 i have never really posted a "love" thread before but im just wondering as there seem to be people that have learned and know way more than me. i just want to know if if it is possible that someone has such a profound effect on another person's life that they cannot "get over" them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stat2883 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 It really all depends on the individual person's psyche and how they cope with the situation. I'd say yeah its possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commander Adama Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Yes...those are the same people that have psychotic breaks or commit suicide. Not to be callous, but people need to just move on. I don't care if they broke up with Angelina Jolie when they were kids and now has a constant reminder how hot she is...move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
squatch66 Posted September 19, 2010 Author Share Posted September 19, 2010 It really all depends on the individual person's psyche and how they cope with the situation. I'd say yeah its possible. get out of my thread!!!!! we have our own forum to discuss this stuff!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stat2883 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 hahahah...FINE! I'm taking my ball and going home! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
squatch66 Posted September 19, 2010 Author Share Posted September 19, 2010 gsabcstat2883 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stat2883 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 gsabcstat2883 I see what you did there We've just completely derailed your thread. I must leave to watch pregame programming on NFL network now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G.A.C.O.L.B. Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Yes. We call them stalkers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
squatch66 Posted September 19, 2010 Author Share Posted September 19, 2010 I see what you did there We've just completely derailed your thread. I must leave to watch pregame programming on NFL network now! i appreciate you dropping in man. i needed to see a friendly face(so to speak) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stat2883 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 i appreciate you dropping in man. i needed to see a friendly face(so to speak) check your PMs man...I'm out for now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DCsportsfan53 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Yes. We call them stalkers. Or cry babies, it depends on how far they take it. :pfft: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
polywog999 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Humans have a built in mechanism that will kick in after a few months of living alone/being rejected. It's called anger and it can be your friend. It helps you to move on to acceptance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smoot Point Really Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 I am pretty sure that most of the folks who are calling it a psychological illness and stalkers would be even more lame if ES were taken away from them. They would be on suicide watch because they couldn't log on and tell you how sick you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
polywog999 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 I am pretty sure that most of the folks who are calling it a psychological illness and stalkers would be even more lame if ES were taken away from them. They would be on suicide watch because they couldn't log on and tell you how sick you are. LOL! I agree. If the OP is having a real problem, talking about stalking and suicide is not very helpful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grhqofb5 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Sasquatch, if you are having separation issues they'll pass. Just takes some time and someone else will come into your life. Sort of like that Garth Brooks song about seeing his girlfriend 20 years after the fact, (unanswered prayers). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G.A.C.O.L.B. Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 I am pretty sure that most of the folks who are calling it a psychological illness and stalkers would be even more lame if ES were taken away from them. They would be on suicide watch because they couldn't log on and tell you how sick you are. Wow. You really hurt my feelings right now. Thanks! I'm lame? Seriously? How about you step away from ES, live life, grow a sense of humor and stop acting like a sanctimonious, holier than thou, overdramatic little *****. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
polywog999 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Wow. You really hurt my feelings right now. Thanks!I'm lame? Seriously? How about you step away from ES, live life, grow a sense of humor and stop acting like a sanctimonious, holier than thou, overdramatic little *****. Easy now! No need for name calling! We don't need to put each other down.Sorry for adding fuel to the fire. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichmondRedskin88 Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 I'd think its possible. I think most recover after a few months(usually upset/pissed off). Best way to recover is to focus on other things(work out, parties,football,etc) and hopefully find another person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IONTOP Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Yes, it's completely possible... There's a difference between "getting over" and "Moving on"... I doubt I'm "over" one of my ex's, even though she's now married and lives in Germany... BUT I have moved on... This was also 6 years ago was the last time I saw her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
War Paint Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 i have never really posted a "love" thread before but im just wondering as there seem to be people that have learned and know way more than me. i just want to know if if it is possible that someone has such a profound effect on another person's life that they cannot "get over" them. I'll be honest, I still think about one of my ex-girlfriends from 15 years ago. I do find myself sometimes drifting off in a day dream thinking about her. I guess it's what the definition of "getting over" someone means. I mean, I don't stress over her or anything like that. It's not like "I can't go on without her". My head knows that I will probably never see her again. My heart still has "you never know what might happen in the future". It was some of the best sex I ever had, so I'm sure that is why I still think about her at times lol. As the previous poster said, I've moved on, but I'd be a liar if I said I still didn't have feelings for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jumbo Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 Wow. You really hurt my feelings right now. Thanks!I'm lame? Seriously? How about you step away from ES, live life, grow a sense of humor and stop acting like a sanctimonious, holier than thou, overdramatic little *****. I didn't see SPR single you out in his post, his post wasn't all that offensive anyway, and regardless of your opinion of SPR's persona as a poster, your quoted comment here could qualify you for a vacation based on it's personalized and directly insulting nature. You might want to apologize so you can enjoy today's game with all your ES friends. While I almost never participate in topics of this nature in this forum, my response would be "yes", even well adjusted people of reasonably sound mental health can care so deeply for someone and for various understandable and sane reasons never completely (or even mostly) "get over it." However, it obviously is a very complicated matter with so many variables for each situation and person that IME it's always going to come back to making yourself aware of all the many different ways you can work on such matters and knowing that time will be a major factor in how you end up coping with this kind of event. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destino Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 It all depends on what you mean by "getting over someone". Some people can naturally attract you and consume your focus even after years of not seeing them. You may never think of them or rarely think of them, but the second you see them again it all comes crashing back like an avalanche. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jumbo Posted September 19, 2010 Share Posted September 19, 2010 You may never think of them or rarely think of them, but the second you see them again it all comes crashing back like an avalanche. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpmm6GSwzAw :pfft: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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