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I don't find it a particularly bad life. It has its rewards. Though I have to admit sometimes it is a bit stressful.😉

Selective quarantine ideas remind me of a common topic I and others with MS have written about, the gap between "wellville" and "sickville." The reason I find it a bit funny is society talking about putting in place physically what I have always felt figuratively. I have often said one of the hardest parts of living with chronic conditions is how to explain to those without that condition or any known ailment what it is like to live with it. That said, I have long known I belong to one of the largest unrecognized minorities, one of the "disabled." Most people I work with and have worked with for years are shocked when they hear I have MS even though I have always been open about having it and what it does to me. For years, I and my wife have worked with our kids to be as open as they want to be about their conditions whether it is my oldest talking about her heart during jump rope for your heart or my younger daughter being open about what the world looks like through her eyes (functionally very blind). Now we talk about quarantine for our family. I will admit I flinch at a regulated quarantine widening the chasm for our family between wellville and sickville. I flinch but it is not like our family hasn't already been self imposed quarantine for the past 7 weeks after being warned about what was coming our way by my sister-in-law, a family practice doctor in WA. I will also admit I would feel a lot more comfortable with a policy that seeks to help those who have to quarantine themselves rather than just mandating they do so. We are lucky. I suspect my wife and I have more resources than most sick people or parents of fragile children. Still, I cringe for some of the families we know going through the hell of suddenly trying to teach their special needs children, many of whom have 1 on 1 helpers in the classroom. We feel like we are going nuts as their is no break from our kids, but at least there are two of us. I haven't seen anything about what families who quarantine will actually need. It's not just money. Look at online schooling to be flexible to build in adaptive learning opportunities. The hardest part I am finding in all of this is the acting out of our kids forced into quarantine. I write a lot of it off to kids grieving for the loss of the existence they had before the virus without an emotional understanding for the necessity of the changes, Social support needs to be more than dollars, though those help. As it is, we struggle to tread water, and count each day without loss of critical skills as a success. Again, my wife and I are lucky to have the support we do. We figure we will deal with where each of us is compared to where we want to be scholastically when all of this is over. I fear that is a high bar for many families who need help.

OK, so my follow up from yesterday involves a dog... We found something funnier than a dog chasing its own tail...a dog with a cone of shame chasing its own tail. What can I say, in a house of stress and foul tempers, sometimes dogs provide the outlet we need.

"A glimpse of my life insolation. One child cusses next out. One child licks floor when told to clean it up. One child sighs at everything and still doesn’t follow directions. One child throws toys into the only place that is unreachable. One child is mad because they are forced to go on a 15 minute walk. One child fed one dog play doh. Why the dog ate it I am not sure. And that is only a tiny glimpse of one day. This is exhausting. And I pray we all survive. We shall overcome!!!!!" This facebook post isn't mine...sadly, it's my wife's. What's more, today has been every bit as bad starting with the 4 year old master of mayhem waking up and deciding to loudly get up at 6:30. He did so in a way that made sure everyone else was up shortly there after. School work and telework have not been helped by today's antics.

Our family fun came from trying to recreate this rap. "Watch Wes Tank Rap" link It is a fun book to read, but this is the best reading of it I have heard. He did a few other Dr. Seus raps too, but this is my favorite. We wonder how many takes it took to record this correctly.

It is like $100 worth of candy. Lol

On the miracle od covid side, I picked up an order at Target on Fri. I had them load it to my trunk knowing we didnt need anything I ordered over the weekend. My wife went to unload it today and found somebody else's order in there too. It is now Mon. What do we do? Call target or just enjoy knowing they probably cant take stuff back and resell it without worry that we tampered with it?

Bacon, this is what Bill Gates was saying when he advocated the federal government underwrite loans for pharmaceutical companies to start building factories to produce any vaccine. He pointed out most companies wouldn't want to build plants that might not have what is needed for the production of the vaccine. He said if the government really wants to get things back to good as quickly as possible, they would start looking to speed up the production of any newly found vaccine. He was spot on. It's not enough to discover a vaccine, We have to produce it in the necessary quantities when the WHOLE WORLD wants it yesterday.

What the heck happened in MD yesterday? We had 1100+ new cases yesterday. That is roughly a 25% increase in our total cases to 5100. https://www.worldometers.info/coronavirus/country/us/

Why is this spreading so slowly in Africa?

Not sure if it makes us bad parents, but we played the you-tube of Samuel L Jackson reading Shut the F up and go to sleep baby book for our 4 year old who wasn't going to sleep on Sat. He already curses up a storm, so it wasn't like he was hearing anything new...Ironically, it worked. On Sunday, my wife made us all a sit down dinner for which we all dressed up in our nicest. Then we watched Onward. It was a nice family date night. We needed anything to break up the routine and thinking about all the contacts we no longer enjoy day to day... before we spend another week with distant learning to go with our social distancing.

Yes, so much our debt is social security. However, we have been paying for social security on as we go basis since Vietnam. Now as we start to draw more out of it than we are putting into it, how do you think it will be paid? It will be paid with current federal tax dollars not social security tax dollars unless we suddenly cut social security payments. The interesting question I get from that is whether it is even worth separating the social security tax from the federal tax. Currently the separation only helps those making a lot of money (relative term) because social security is only collected up to $128,400. Every dollar after that is not subject to the social security tax. As for whether this administration could pull off something requiring the amount of coordination needed, I share your doubts. I just don't see any easy way forward regardless of who is in charge, and this would go against so many economic theories I studied in college and since, Despite the difficulties in implementing a plan like mine, I still see it as the easiest/least bad path forward if one is trying to maintain productivity and our current economic model. I sincerely hope a smart mind than mine comes up with the better path.

With the entire world's economies set up for a coronavirus crash, I think there are two ways out. The first is massive inflation and unrest as banks fail due to cascading inability to make scheduled payments by people and businesses. As banks fail, money available for consumers and businesses becomes much more expensive. For an idea what that could be like, I direct you to Jamaica. When I was there in Jan, I asked why all the houses are half built. I was told interest rates are btw 17-20% so all houses are built as they get money to do it. When interest rates sore, the costs for everything goes up and sales drop. Just think how many fewer houses or cars would be sold and what that does for related industries. Now lets look at our tax structure. Currently with our model, we tax every time money changes hands. There are some wealth taxes like real estate taxes we pay at the local level, but most of the time we pay when money changes hands. If money no longer changes hands as much, then less is collected. That means we either change the tax rate, run deficit's (states and localities can not), or provide less service. How happy will citizens be without good roads, emergency services, and fewer hospitals? I think down this road lies severe public unrest. I am not sure our current political/economic model survives this road. A second way forward is a massive stimulus like nothing we have seen because our current proposals do nothing beyond putting a band-aid on massive 3rd degree burn. The stimulus I propose would be a world wide forgiveness of debts paid for by the governments of the world. I am talking a stimulus where if you owe, the federal government writes a check (or hits a few keys). I am not talking about just student loans. I mean mortgages, student loans, medical debt, back rent, etc. I would like to see a global reset. From a given date, the balance of your bank account is from what you earn going forward minus what you spend. For what it's worth, I would have the U.S. do it for all our national debt too. That may cause inflation on a grand scale if only one country does it, but if all do? It's only inflationary if your currency is seen as less valuable/stable than some other currency. I say let all the countries take on debt to deal with the coronavirus, and then pay it all out by increasing monetary supply by enough to cover debts. I am trying to figure out who gets hurt more on this path than the first. Am I crazy?

I agree diehard (great to see you on again). I dont think our economy looks the same on the other side of this. I question how an economy where the growth has been largely financed through debt continues when we have stretch where there are massive defaults. I think many people will begin doing the thinking of weighing walking away from existing obligations versus starting over. How does our banking industry deal with massive defaults. It makes me think of the old axiom, "when you owe $100k, the bank owns you. When you you owe $100 billion( or heaven forbid trillions), you own the bank." At this point, individuals dont own the bank, but as a class, small business owners and households own the banks. The question is how do we restructure our debt to allow financing of future projects. I see people talking about college loan forgiveness. Why stop there? What about home loan help? Other things will need to be done if we are to preserve a capitalist economy post corona virus.

As usual, I think Gates gets it: Gate's edditorial One thing I haven't seen mentioned by others is planning for the production of a vaccine. The demand will be huge, but most of the building up for the production is likely to not fill the needs as they arrive. If we want to produce such a vaccine in the quantities needed quickly, we need to plan for success in developing ahttps://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/bill-gates-heres-how-to-make-up-for-lost-time-on-covid-19/2020/03/31/ab5c3cf2-738c-11ea-85cb-8670579b863d_story.html?itid=pm_pop vaccine. It is the first time I have seen somebody advocating for the implementation of plans for what to do if we get a vaccine. In management terms, I would file this under "those who don't plan for success are planning to fail." The other two points about a federal response plan versus a states and the need for more testing with centralized results are good points too. It's just the planning for what success could look like that I think has been missing from our national discussions.

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My kids have been in daily contact with their cousins in WA and Germany along w friends in Israel. Never been more happy they have relationships with extended family. My son is even playing DnD w cousin in Germany. These are the days of miracle and wonder.

Sorry, I tried to paste chart from worldometer on daily deaths, but I can't from phone. It is the predictable exponential growth. My next question is when do we take the steps countries like Israel are taking to get on top of this? I predict we go above 5k before we try to bend the curve as a country and closer to 10k before we agree on what to do and start implementation of measures. For reference, in Israel, our friend can't go more than 300ft from their house unless they are the one person in the house gping out for food. I bet their numbers of new cases drop precipitously in next 2 weeks. Why can't we? Political will is my answer, and frankly I dont know whether to be more emarassed, disgusted, or angry with those who wont take this seriously. Their ignorant actions mean the rest of us have to isolate ourselves longer.

With the U.S. now having more cases than any other country, when do we start calling it thr "American virus?" When I coupme that with culpability in its spread here through late testing, an inability to treat due to political blackmail for ventilators and insurance issues. I am actually a bit embarrassed that we let our political vehemence spread a deadly disease rather than treat it.

Sobering thought of the day courtesy of my wife: With many of us practicing social distancing and isolation of family units, how much more abuse do you think is happening? Lord knows it is a stressful time with many losing jobs...and then being forced to be around your family. All of this with increased risks from getting sick or others around you getting sick or being unable to fulfill their needs. Now you add social workers trying to check in remotely...

I would start with calling your primary care provider. They may direct you to a particular location/hospital. They may also be able to best direct you in how to deal with the situation and whether it is worth leaving. edit: having seen the other replies, if there is a hotline, I would use it. I just know my over stressed sister-in-law still gets paged from patients to direct them the best she can because she knows the situation at different treatment centers near her.

It is a train wreck in slow motion. We can see what needs to come next, but summoning the collective will to do it is difficult. We all want to pretend this won't impact me or those I love unless we let it. However, we all need to choose to be impacted in order to lessen the impact on our society as a whole. Alas, this is not the American normal way. We are a giving society, but we insist on all of us having a choice to give or not. This is one of those times where removing the choice means less has to be given. Thus, we see the train about to collide and hope we have the courage to make the hard choices and hit the brakes.

I will say I am a little concerned gov. Hogan just reactivated people with expired medical licenses. I have warned my wife that I could see her drafted because nurses may end up in extreme demand. As her old coworkers tell her of the difficulty they are having getting nurses for exposed/positive pediatric cases, I can see a case for her being drafted. For our family, it would be a nightmare for me. I am watching her try to homeschool our 4 special needs kids, while rationing supplies, and run our house. It is high stress enough. Still I look at my usual utilitarian belief set and see how her working if things go like Italy, could save so many more lives than ours. I think Hogan made the right call. I just hope it isn't the first step that ends with my wife leaving us for the duration. Even if it is, I would still support it as probably the right call. It would just suck for us.

We are going to the mailbox every other day. The mail is then sitting untouched for 2 days. We also wash our hands every time we come inside from outside.

Larry, I believe we are the largest supplier of natural gas in the world. The methods we use to produce it are not competitive if the price of oil drops too low. Think about North Dakota. They had a huge boom in natural gas exploration and fracking, and then the price of oil dropped. I don't remember what the price point is at which point fracking and horizontal drilling fail to produce a cost competitive source of energy, but below that point, the U.S. looses it role as the leading producer of a product used to produce energy. Further, the U.S. loses a lot of export sales. When the U.S. has not been a net exporter of oil/natural gas, we could pretty much map out our recessions and booms according to spikes in the cost of energy causing recessions. That is one reason why it is a little odd from a historical perspective to see us trying to keep the price up. It means the benefits to the oil/gas industry is thought to have a greater impact on our economy than the drags of higher production costs due to increased costs for power.