abdcskins Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Congrats man. And I mean that in the best possible way. Of course sorry it didn't work out but it is so much better to be apart and not fighting every night than trying to force it and being unhappy. That's why if I get married(hopefully before I am too old) I want to make sure it is a woman that I will love forever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Great, great post. Brotherz. I agree 100%. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchogs Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 sorry to hear that SC. from everything i've heard, the first part is the hardest. don't beat yourself or your ex up too much in your head. take this opportunity to fully invest yourself in something you've been putting off. for me, it would be working out... plus that would have the effect of making me (you) a hotter commodity on the open market (not that you should jump right into something... you need to focus on you for a long time and get your own head straight). keep your head up, don't be afraid to cry it out, and focus on your little boy. you'll get through it and be happier on the other side. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeanCollins Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 There is life beyond divorce and life is very good! :pfft: Second wife is 1000% awesome. So I say, congrats and enjoy your new found bachelorhood with enthusiasm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECSkinsFan01 Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Some more "voice of experience" advice for ya: Coming from a kid whose parents divorced, this post is spot on. My parents were very good about the whole thing, pretty much did exactly what Brotherz has advised, and things have worked out as best they could. Obviously its not an ideal situation, but things between my parents and my siblings and me are as good as they can be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cedk Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Yeah make the best of it. Take care of kids. But DON'T become the weekend babysitter.. have them much longer weekdays. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SC_RedskinsFan Posted March 12, 2010 Author Share Posted March 12, 2010 Thanks for all of the advice everybody. I am hurting right now, but the good thing is i have my son this weekend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cedk Posted March 12, 2010 Share Posted March 12, 2010 Thanks for all of the advice everybody. I am hurting right now, but the good thing is i have my son this weekend. :drooley::drooley:Great and she is Free as a bird! for the weekend. Perfect for her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grhqofb5 Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 :drooley::drooley:Great and she is Free as a bird! for the weekend. Perfect for her Maybe she'll get roped by some dude who sings karaoke in Jorts with a braided belt, gets married to him in a couple months, and you won't have to worry about spousal support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeanCollins Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 man you guys need to quit, that's his kid's mom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelinwaiting Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 man you guys need to quit, that's his kid's mom. Seriously, thats kinda harsh! :beatdeadhorse: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Maybe she'll get roped by some dude who sings karaoke in Jorts with a braided belt, gets married to him in a couple months, and you won't have to worry about spousal support. Classy. :applause: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The 12th Commandment Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I think the only thing to do is go wet a line. I'll be there shortly on the bank of the rio, drinkin' a cold one - with you in spirit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teller Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 I think the only thing to do is go wet a line. Are you speaking metaphorically? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The 12th Commandment Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Whaaaaa, never heard of a therapeutic metaphor? Sometimes you're all wet hog. Seriously though, I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if that's exactly where SC is with his kid today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SC_RedskinsFan Posted March 13, 2010 Author Share Posted March 13, 2010 Whaaaaa, never heard of a therapeutic metaphor? Sometimes you're all wet hog. Seriously though, I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if that's exactly where SC is with his kid today. Close KAO, i took my son to the Aquarium in Charleston today. We had a good time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeanCollins Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Close KAO, i took my son to the Aquarium in Charleston today. We had a good time. Hey SC, that's what I did, stayed real busy with my kid. He was two when his mom and I split up. It seemed real weird just the two of us for first couple months, but then I enjoyed it more than ever. I didn't have someone nagging about spoiling him too much and all. I was almost 30 when the separation occurred. I thought that I was too old to start dating again, what a bunch of crap that was. The next 6 years I had more fun dating then I ever did. The situation is reversed, the pursued becomes the pursuers and the "biological clock" ticking was a real motivator. As for the x-wife, I let her know real quick that I wished her well with the rest of her life and don't even think about getting back together. She about had a nervous breakdown by about my third girlfriend in 6 months. She's still regretting. :pfft: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McD5 Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Congralations. Life is wayyy too short to be married. It may seem difficult at first, but you will be thrilled in the long run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boobiemiles Posted March 13, 2010 Share Posted March 13, 2010 Oh you are only 31. Man you will be married again in no time. Women can smell a married or divorced man. Plus you got married in you early 20's. Man, go out there and find a woman or man that satisfies your appetites. We all grow as people. Sometimes when you think you are starting over, you are just doing what you are suppose to do all along. You know who you are, and what you really want without the reservations or searching for what's ideal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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