Just need a vent

[chascougs]

Thanks for all the replies. I am really trying to take the high road and following suggestions that a family counselor provided me last year. What tears me apart is the turmoil it creates in my kids. The last thing they need is feel like they have to "choose sides" but it gets more difficult with every crappy little thing she pulls to not just tell all. I just have to continue being consistant with message that I love them and will never let anyone or anything stand in the way of my spending time with them. I can't imagine what it's like for them to hear from their mother that their father, whom they love and trust, is a cold hearted, lying, evil SOB. Makes it even more important for me to maximize my time with my kids.