Johnny Punani2 Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 I dunno if this question has ever been brought up here but here it goes... The wife and I have had an ongoing arguement about sex & marriage. To be specific, the number of times the avg married couple have sex in a week. I think it is around 2-3 times a week and my wife seems to think it's only 1 time a week. Her reasoning behind this number is because she has talked to several of her female coworkers and they have all said they only have sex once a week with their husband if that. I know age and how long you have been married play into it but 1 time a week seems like a stretch to me. I dunno??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Om Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 How long have you been married, JP? Reason I ask is, early on, it ain't 2 or 3 times a week, it's more like 2 or 3 times a day. And then, later on (I hear), it ain't 1 time a week, it's more like 1 time a year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeorama Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 I've been married 6 years and I guess on average it would be closer to 1 time per week than 2-3. Since we are trying to have a kid, that goes way up when my wife is ovulating. My wife and I work opposite schedules during the weekdays, so we may not be the best judge. If both of us were off each week night together, it probably would be different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinsfan81 Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 At least 2 times a week! Sometimes three but I am happy with two times a week. Been married for 8 years and have three boys. So that has a huge impact. One time a week is for old people.:laugh: R. Bizzle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fan4life Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 WEll, cant speak for the rest but. I'm married 5yrs going. and usually it 4-8x a week for us. but then again, it depends on the relationship. Plus I have a HOtass wife. so that helps! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Die Hard Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Don't budge. Women are steadfast... and they believe if they repeat it all the time they can ween you down to 1 time a week. If they can't give you 15-30 minutes a day 2-3 times a week... then you remind her that all the little things you do to make her happy and to make the relationship work are done. Women who try to pass that crap off are selfish. Sex is one of the most important needs to a man in marriage and life. And if they aren't willing to fulfill that need... you deprive them of all the other needs and compromises they want. No more Christmas at the inlaws. More guys nites out. You don't go with her to visit her friends. You don't do the little things like picking stuff up at the store for her. etc etc Of course women resent you for bringing all that stuff up. Of course we wouldn't have to if women didn't take it all for granted either. I'm at 3 times per week. I won't accept anything less or it becomes an argument. But I haven't had that argument in years because I made a convincing argument to begin with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kilmer17 Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 LOL Code. I never thought sex would be a "chore" until we started trying to have a kid. Talk about taking the luster off. If you are looking for an average, Im almost positive its just LESS than 1 time a week. BUt obviously that number is skewed by age and length of marriage. The real important issue is if 1 of you wants it more and the other doesnt want to. If both are happy with the frequency, whether it's once a week, twice a week, or once a month, THAT's the important thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeorama Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Kilmer17 LOL Code. I never thought sex would be a "chore" until we started trying to have a kid. Talk about taking the luster off. If you are looking for an average, Im almost positive its just LESS than 1 time a week. BUt obviously that number is skewed by age and length of marriage. The real important issue is if 1 of you wants it more and the other doesnt want to. If both are happy with the frequency, whether it's once a week, twice a week, or once a month, THAT's the important thing. No doubt about sex becoming a chore because of trying to have a kid. It really takes a toll on you. No fun at all.....:rotflmao: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Die Hard Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Fan4life Plus I have a HOtass wife. so that helps! Having a HOTass wife doesn't equate into the conversation. Since we only really have sex when SHE wants to. Her being being "hot" is mutually exclusive from her sex drive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fan4life Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Unfortunately, SEX is 1 of the biggest issues people have in a marriage. And alot of people bypass that when they feel that burden. And usually it splits up the relationships. very similiar to $$$ issues. I definitely will say this. If your parnter starts to not take care of herself kids or not. And you are staying in shape and so on. Make sure you tell her what is on your mind. SEX is IMPORTANT!!! dont ever be fooled! Thats probaly why you seeeeee sooo many men stray!!!! :mad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fan4life Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Die Hard Having a HOTass wife doesn't equate into the conversation. Since we only really have sex when SHE wants to. Her being being "hot" is mutually exclusive from her sex drive. lol...I know that. But it sure helps my drive though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Die Hard Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Kilmer17 LOL Code. I never thought sex would be a "chore" until we started trying to have a kid. Chore or not... it's a basic physical requirement that needs to be fulfilled. You simply can't expect to have intimacy on every occasion with any kind of quantity. I refer to "semen" as "liquid hate". The longer it gets stored up... the more miserable and unbearable a man becomes. Its in everyone's interest to diffuse it as often as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Om Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 DH, you're quite the romantic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
codeorama Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Om DH, you're quite the romantic. :rotflmao: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedskinsFanInTX Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 With kids it makes things tougher. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO JUST DO IT! Make some time or find some time. :quickie: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GB81 Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Being a not married guy, I have a question for the married guys...if you are only getting it one night a week, do you find it necessary to...ahem..."rough up the suspect" somewhat regularly? It seems like sharing a bedroom might make that difficult....and, you know...a man has needs... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
endzone_dave Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Since my wife and I got married, I've developed hands of steel. That's fine, I hate foreplay anyway. Thank God for the Daily Babe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbooma Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Die Hard I refer to "semen" as "liquid hate". The longer it gets stored up... the more miserable and unbearable a man becomes. Its in everyone's interest to diffuse it as often as possible. I think someone needs to relieve himself more, maybe with rosy palm :laugh: Doctor's say you should either have sex or ejaculate at least 5 times a week to keep your prostate healthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Punani2 Posted February 3, 2004 Author Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by Om How long have you been married, JP? Reason I ask is, early on, it ain't 2 or 3 times a week, it's more like 2 or 3 times a day. And then, later on (I hear), it ain't 1 time a week, it's more like 1 time a year. I've been married for about 4 yrs now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
endzone_dave Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by jbooma I think someone needs to relieve himself more, maybe with rosy palm :laugh: Doctor's say you should either have sex or ejaculate at least 5 times a week to keep your prostate healthy Damn it. I thought they said 5 times an hour. Yay! No more blisters! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Punani2 Posted February 3, 2004 Author Share Posted February 3, 2004 Originally posted by codeorama My wife and I work opposite schedules during the weekdays, so we may not be the best judge. If both of us were off each week night together, it probably would be different. This is the exact same situation my wife and I are in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fan4life Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 I've been married for about 4 yrs now. [/b] same boat here. Enjoy it man..its rare these days! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henry Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 You havin a bad week or sumpthin, Die Hard? JP, I'd just tell your wife you aren't married to her friends, so you aren't interested in their sexual tendencies. What's important is what the two of you decide is right for your relationship. If you want scootie more than once a week and she doesn't, she should respect you enough to give you a real answer and not resort to some high school peer pressure nonsense. That's the only way you are going to be able to have an honest discussion about it. In my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Evil Genius Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 I can't believe you guys are talking about sex on a public message board. What if my 5 year old walked in and saw these messages! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkinInsite Posted February 3, 2004 Share Posted February 3, 2004 Think of the children!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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