Rdskn4Lyf21 Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Full article: http://www.menshealth.com/best-life/do-all-guys-cheat-at-bachelor-parties?adbid=532206905804877826&adbpl=tw&adbpr=25093616&cid=socBL_20141111_35368087 "One-third of all grooms-to-be cheat at their bachelor parties, according to a recent British survey and two independent sex experts we interviewed. Now think of three married couples you know and guess which husband. "I don't think a third is an outrageous number by any means," says Ontario, Canada-based clinical sexologist Dr. Carlen Costa. "We've all got a lot of secrets, and that's why I stay in business." Las Vegas limo driver Jenny G. came up with a similar estimate based not only on hearing her passengers brag, but also on the commissions she earns whenever they ask her to order an "escort" to their room. And because she also occasionally sees it. "I have my partition deactivated," Jenny says. "It's always funny. They'll put the girl in the middle of the seat in the back and they'll try to straddle her doggy-style. But every time the car moves or turns a corner, one of them ends up falling over and banging their heads on the window because there's no footing and there's not enough room to lay down. "It's a very awkward thing and it usually never lasts long," she adds. “Because they get tired of having to reposition every time the car moves." Incidentally, Jenny says bachelors are ****cats compared to their best men, who she says have sex 90 percent of the time. (However, they may not be cheating on anyone.) The British survey, conducted by coupon company VoucherCloud, also found that 92 percent of bachelor party attendees lie about their cheating for the duration of their marriages." ..... I posted this article for two reasons: I'm bored at work, and it's always something I've found to be interesting.Personally, I've never been to a strip club and it's something that I find to be a waste of time and money. I'm hoping to one day have a bachelor party that's a camping trip or something of that variety. If I found out that my future wife had cheated during her bachelorette party there wouldn't be a wedding.Just curious to see everyone else's take on this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Springfield Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Define cheating... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mocountyskins Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 I see more and more articles about X% of spouses cheating, and it seems like its always going up to ridiculous #s like 70% and stuff. That is extremely depressing. Idk if thats all BS #s or whatever but when you think about your parents, or grandparents or just anyone close to you and think well if it was a # like 70% thats a lot of people. I would lose all respect for anyone who did that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrypticVillain Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Define cheating...This.If cheating is defined as performing a "sexual act", then I think 66% is too high. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bliz Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Define cheating... ^ exactly. I've never been to a bachelor party where I saw something that I would consider cheating. Certainly no sex. Been to some clubs where grabbing of boobs or butts was totally fine (a shock to me the first time I saw it. Around here, that sort of thing would get you thrown out and probably beaten up). That's the most I've seen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rdskn4Lyf21 Posted November 11, 2014 Author Share Posted November 11, 2014 Define cheating... Yeah, that's the tough part with all of these. I'm more old-school so I consider any sexual contact cheating. Others have much less stringent standards for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twa Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Yeah, that's the tough part with all of these. I'm more old-school so I consider any sexual contact cheating. Others have much less stringent standards for it I had sex with my wife to be at it ....does that count? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corcaigh Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 I had sex with my wife to be at it ....does that count? Slut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mocountyskins Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Whoever voted yes should explain themselves or else you have lost my respect forever whoever you are Also who are "Sex experts" whenever I see a "Sex Expert" its usually a middle aged or middle aged woman that are extremely unattractive with a huge mole under their lip and a turkey neck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveakl Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Slut. TWA, wife, or both? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dont Taze Me Bro Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Whoever voted yes should explain themselves or else you have lost my respect forever whoever you are Also who are "Sex experts" whenever I see a "Sex Expert" its usually a middle aged or middle aged woman that are extremely unattractive with a huge mole under their lip and a turkey neck. They answered yes and their wife was fine with it. And I'm sure that they could care less if they lose any respect from anyone on here broski My answer was no. If I wanted to have sex with another woman I wouldn't be committed to my wife/bride-to-be/GF. I always told my wife that one thing she never had to worry about was me cheating on her and I would break it off (dating/marriage/etc.) before that happened cause I respect her too much to do that. And breaking it off isn't an option, I'm a lucky man. To each their own though. I knew a guy in college (older guy going back later in life), him and his wife were swingers and it was nothing to see him come into the groc. store I worked at with the swap (buddy's wife/gf). That's just not my style. I'm a one woman man. Even if the wife gave me a "Hall Pass" for one night only, I wouldn't take it. Just not my thing. But I don't judge others, not my thing either, regardless of how I feel about the topic of cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
d0ublestr0ker0ll Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Whoever voted yes should explain themselves or else you have lost my respect forever whoever you are Also who are "Sex experts" whenever I see a "Sex Expert" its usually a middle aged or middle aged woman that are extremely unattractive with a huge mole under their lip and a turkey neck. Lol! Moco's got a chip on his shoulder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dont Taze Me Bro Posted November 11, 2014 Share Posted November 11, 2014 Lol! Moco's got a chip on his shoulder. He's bout to wreck foos in tha face wit a spiked bat son! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mocountyskins Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Whoever did it hopefully they banged someone who has aids. Thats all I can say, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corcaigh Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 TWA, wife, or both? I was talking about twa, but on consideration ... everyone at the party, including the cattle. Whoever did it hopefully they banged someone who has aids. Sounds like a musical. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dont Taze Me Bro Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Whoever did it hopefully they banged someone who has aids. Thats all I can say, Easy man. Listen, I don't encourage cheating on someone and would never do it myself. With that said, his wife knows about it and doesn't care. For all we know it was his last night as a free man with a pass. Their marriage and what they have to live with the rest of their lives, is just that, it's THEIRS. You don't have to agree with it, nor do I. At the end of the day, they have to live with what they have done, not us. Personally, I don't see the point in sleeping with another woman at a bachelor party, even with a free pass, cause that's not my style. Again, I don't judge though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destino Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Personally, I've never been to a strip club and it's something that I find to be a waste of time and money. I'm hoping to one day have a bachelor party that's a camping trip or something of that variety. You've never been to one but you have made up your mind about it? The ones in DC are a waste of time and money. Vegas is different, I've been to a few at bachelor parties there and it's spectacle that has to be experienced to be understood fully. Drinks are terrible though, really unforgivably shamefully bad. No one cheated on their wives or future wives though, that's not cool at all. We all know eachothers wives and I don't think that would have gone over very well. Walking through the casino lobbies drunk was the biggest hazard, it's like trying to hold on to a large pile of crumpled bills in a wind storm. Camping sounds boring as hell to me, but that's because camping just isn't my deal. Tony Romo did the camping thing too IIRC. Some people are really into sleeping outside. To each his own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duckus Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Last bachelor party I went to was the first time I saw someone actually pay a stripper for a BJ. The guy was not the bachelor but he was married. The stripper was ugly as hell. Lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Do Itch Big Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Call me cynical, but I wouldn't expect anyone on ES to admit to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kosher Ham Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 How would MoCo have any idea ? I agree with Taze on this subject. If you cheat at that point, typically it must be peer pressure. Though if that is the reason, you are weak, and really don't respect your situation. But hell, that's between them. I know a guy that gets his rocks of watching his wifey...with other dudes. Sometimes...multiple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chipwhich Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 So many great catches here on ES. You guys are saints Divorce rates in America wouldn't be so high if women married ES posters Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dont Taze Me Bro Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 How would MoCo have any idea ? I agree with Taze on this subject. If you cheat at that point, typically it must be peer pressure. Though if that is the reason, you are weak, and really don't respect your situation. But hell, that's between them. I know a guy that gets his rocks of watching his wifey...with other dudes. Sometimes...multiple. Exactly man. Why get serious if you want to have sex with other women. If you want to do that, it's called staying single, being a man-whore, playing the field, etc. Why get involved? I've never understood that. I get there are couples out there that are freaks and their agreement or mutual understanding and practices are between them. But just talking a regular couple, cheating is one of the most disrespectful things someone could do to another person. So many great catches here on ES. You guys are saints Divorce rates in America wouldn't be so high if women married ES posters I'm definitely not a saint lol. But I've never understood why anyone, male or female, would feel the need to disrespect someone they care about and claim they love by cheating on them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chipwhich Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Exactly man. Why get serious if you want to have sex with other women. If you want to do that, it's called staying single, being a man-whore, playing the field, etc. Why get involved? I've never understood that. I get there are couples out there that are freaks and their agreement or mutual understanding and practices are between them. But just talking a regular couple, cheating is one of the most disrespectful things someone could do to another person. I'm definitely not a saint lol. But I've never understood why anyone, male or female, would feel the need to disrespect someone they care about and claim they love by cheating on them. As opposed to rape? Murder? Abuse? Have you seen the divorce rate in this country? "Love" is exciting and new but lets not live in fairytale world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balki1867 Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Not making this up: I went to one in San Diego where we ended up walking across the border to Tijuana and I witnessed multiple guys (including the groom) perform a sex act with a stripper on the stage. I'm also pretty sure 3 guys partook in the local prostitutes for a quickie (they left for about an hour and a half to go to an earlier bar which was known for being a hooker hangout). All in all I *THINK* 6 of the 12 of us paid for some favors that night. I was 23 at the time and wasn't sure whether this was an "average" bachelor party. Most of the ones involving my close friends have involved outdoor sports (mountain biking, skiing, etc), beer tasting, and copious amounts of drinking. For the record, strippers aren't really my thing. If I wanted to pay someone to get me all horned up, I'd just pay cover at a club. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dont Taze Me Bro Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 As opposed to rape? Murder? Abuse? Have you seen the divorce rate in this country? "Love" is exciting and new but lets not live in fairytale world. Not sure where rape, murder or abuse fits into a discussion on if you cheated on your spouse at your bachelor party or not. I know the divorce rate is high in our country. I'm just saying, I've never understood why someone would feel the need to be "committed" and lead on another person while they are out "whoring" themselves to other men/women. I don't live in a fairy tail world. But when it comes to commitment and being faithful to my wife and any other female I dated prior to her, I have always been and never strayed. And trust me, I had my fair share of offers back in the day. But why ruin the best thing in my life for one night of sex with someone that doesn't care about me when it's all said and done? Chip, you wanna go out, sleep with whomever, whenever while in a relationship, then by all means brother, get yo sex on. None of my business. I just think its disrespectful to treat women like that. Same with women treating men like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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