oldskoolskins Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 My condolances on your loss Adam, I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Enforcer_FFX Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Sorry to hear about this, bro....Your fam is def in my prayers today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianm23 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Sending you my well wishes and warm thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capt. Kaos Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Our Condolences, thoughts and prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBass1724 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 My condolences to you and your family man, that is just awful! :'( Like another poster said earlier, you don't need to delete anything you typed. Get it all out. We are all a family here and everyone can understand and sympathize with you. Be strong dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forever21 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 My condolences and thoughts go out to you and your family. Take care of yourself during this tough time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sniffler Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... I'm so sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heisenberg Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Thoughts and prayers with you and your family. I'm almost 26 and I can't imagine losing my father - I'm very sorry to hear about this . . . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChettEye Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 God bless you and your family for the loss! Your Dad will always be with you! Look back at the good times and all the love he shared and all he has taught you. That's the way to insure he'll always be by your side and in your heart! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Section123OnSundays Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 My prayers will be with you my friend, I am very sorry to hear this. Please don't hold anything in about your situation, let it out man. God bless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adamyesme1111 Posted July 16, 2010 Author Share Posted July 16, 2010 My condolences to you and your family man, that is just awful! :'(Like another poster said earlier, you don't need to delete anything you typed. Get it all out. We are all a family here and everyone can understand and sympathize with you. Be strong dude. Rambling alert: A few people told me to just get everything off my chest so I did...It is good to just type it all out. Ok, well he was the one who spoke the words that I believed the most. He has been my hero since I was a little kid and this shouldn't of happened. He was fine before he got prescribed those medications and if it was those doctors faults they are going to lose everything so they don't kill anyone elses dad. He had all these plans, we were getting our RV fixed up so we could watch sattelite on the road and go traveling alot. He worked hard his whole life to launch his land surveying business so he could retire young. He finally did retire just a couple years back but his real retirement was just starting. He worked hard his whole life so he could enjoy not having to work past 50 and he got that taken away from him. I am the one who found him and I am never going to forget the look of his eyes...I knew he was gone but of course that didn't stop me from screaming and calling 911 and giving him CPR, and he was making noises so I thought he was still alive. I wasn't going to accept that my dad was just gone out of nowhere. He wanted to start his real retirement by traveling and camping and start hunting and fishing with me again and go to the beach more and everything. I don't have him to go to for the advice that I respected most anymore. It just was just the worse possible time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Edds Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 condolences to you and your family ... sending thoughts and prayers your way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rdskn4Lyf21 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 I'm praying for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiggosMohawk Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Adam I'm really sorry for your loss and I feel your pain. Let the good memories keep coming back to you and dont bury them. At first they'll make you hurt since you want more of them. Over time you'll treasure those good memories with your dad more than anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ned Flanders Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Rambling alert: A few people told me to just get everything off my chest so I did...It is good to just type it all out.Ok, well he was the one who spoke the words that I believed the most. He has been my hero since I was a little kid and this shouldn't of happened. He was fine before he got prescribed those medications and if it was those doctors faults they are going to lose everything so they don't kill anyone elses dad. He had all these plans, we were getting our RV fixed up so we could watch sattelite on the road and go traveling alot. He worked hard his whole life to launch his land surveying business so he could retire young. He finally did retire just a couple years back but his real retirement was just starting. He worked hard his whole life so he could enjoy not having to work past 50 and he got that taken away from him. I am the one who found him and I am never going to forget the look of his eyes...I knew he was gone but of course that didn't stop me from screaming and calling 911 and giving him CPR, and he was making noises so I thought he was still alive. I wasn't going to accept that my dad was just gone out of nowhere. He wanted to start his real retirement by traveling and camping and start hunting and fishing with me again and go to the beach more and everything. I don't have him to go to for the advice that I respected most anymore. It just was just the worse possible time. You know, when I was 13 I lost my best friend in the entire world. My Grandpa. That man taught me how to hunt, fish, respect others, and conduct myself like a person should. I was in 8th grade I was on Easter break, and my brother and I had just dropped him off at the airport for his trip back to NY. The next day we had a Sheriff waiting for us when we got home, and he broke the news that my grandfather had been shot and killed. It was about the roughest thing I've ever had to deal with. He really was my best friend, and every bit as much of a fatherly figure. I still miss him imensly to this day (it's been over 20 years), but in his honor, I became the most diehard fisherman. That's what i focused on, because it was how we bonded and spent many many hours. Fishing as much as i possibly could made me feel closer to him. And it's never a good time brother..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkart Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 So sorry to hear this, RIP to your Dad and I hope the healing process passes quickly for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
santana_4_prez Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Rambling alert: A few people told me to just get everything off my chest so I did...It is good to just type it all out.Ok, well he was the one who spoke the words that I believed the most. He has been my hero since I was a little kid and this shouldn't of happened. He was fine before he got prescribed those medications and if it was those doctors faults they are going to lose everything so they don't kill anyone elses dad. He had all these plans, we were getting our RV fixed up so we could watch sattelite on the road and go traveling alot. He worked hard his whole life to launch his land surveying business so he could retire young. He finally did retire just a couple years back but his real retirement was just starting. He worked hard his whole life so he could enjoy not having to work past 50 and he got that taken away from him. I am the one who found him and I am never going to forget the look of his eyes...I knew he was gone but of course that didn't stop me from screaming and calling 911 and giving him CPR, and he was making noises so I thought he was still alive. I wasn't going to accept that my dad was just gone out of nowhere. He wanted to start his real retirement by traveling and camping and start hunting and fishing with me again and go to the beach more and everything. I don't have him to go to for the advice that I respected most anymore. It just was just the worse possible time. Thanks for sharing...anything else you want to get off your chest feel free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
purbeast Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 really sorry to hear this my fathers passing is coming up on 1 year next month, and while i am doing better now than i was when he passed, i still think about it daily and can get sad at any moment. time will help but you will always have him in your heart. ps. my dad was a huge redskins fan too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RFKFedEx Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 My condolances. That's a rough stretch you've weathered my friend. May you have sunny skys and better times ahead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeff in D.C. Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Thoughts, prayers, and condolences. Rest assured your dad will be watching the games this year from a great seat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adamyesme1111 Posted July 16, 2010 Author Share Posted July 16, 2010 I really appreciate all your kind words. I showed my mother all of them and showed her how the website was dimmed in my fathers honor. Thanks for everything guys, you helped more than you probably thought you would. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goskinz0721 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redskns21 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 So sorry Adam, the only advice I can possibly offer is to talk about your feelings and do your best to listen and be there for your older brother and Mother. Sure, you're younger but everyone deals with things differently so it may be that you're just what they need to get through this and maybe that'll help you as well. I know it's not the same, but it was about this time 15 years ago that I lost my best friend in the world to Cystic Fibrosis. I, unlike you, didn't talk about it much and kept a lot of it inside me. It wasn't healthy, I thought I was being strong or cool or whatever as I was just 17 but it wasn't until I got a bit older that I started talking and writing about it and it really did help. I'm very sorry Adam, for you and your family! May God help you all through this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
erock353 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 I'm truly sorry to hear this happening to your family. I send my thoughts and prayers to your family and just know that your dad will always be with you. All of us on ES are here for you to ease your mind from this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dblock804 Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 Hang in there man. Thoughts and prayers..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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