Have you ever tapped, slapped, hit, punched, etc., your Significant Other or Ex?

[BigMike619]

My bf has tripped me, slapped me, kicked me, punch me, pretty much anything you can do. Obviously this is all accidental...he is not a violent person but he is one clumsy sob. I end up hurt all the time. I think I have been hurt by him so many times I cant even keep track. I know not to play fight with him too much because it always gets taken to the next level. I always get upset at first and then I feel bad because he is always apologizing and trying to rub or comfort me...

:laugh:

He has you fooled...he isnt clumsy at all. he just "slips" sometimes.

[Special K]

My bf has tripped me, slapped me, kicked me, punch me, pretty much anything you can do. Obviously this is all accidental...he is not a violent person but he is one clumsy sob. I end up hurt all the time. I think I have been hurt by him so many times I cant even keep track. I know not to play fight with him too much because it always gets taken to the next level. I always get upset at first and then I feel bad because he is always apologizing and trying to rub or comfort me...

You are hurt all the time and it's "accidental" on his part? He's just "clumsy?"

I'm sorry, this just sounds really odd.

If a guy is that "clumsy" with me a couple times, well, I guess I could understand that. But if I'm continually getting hurt, I'm kicking the dude in the nads, telling him he sucks tuna water, and moving on.

[Cowboy8467]

Question - Why did you slap girls across the face? Did they make you so mad that you just lost control and felt the need to smack them? Did they insult your manhood? Did they hit you first?

I just can't see how anyone thinks it's ok to hit a woman because you got angry with her.

Well, it happend on two occasions, both in high school. The first one I genuinly felt quite bad about and I apologized to her for it later.

My girlfriend had just dumped me the previous day and that day at lunch my friend had been kind of bugging me about it over the course of the hour so eventually I just kind of mumbled at her to shut up and leave me alone. She responded with "No wonder she dumped you, you're such a loser!" and I just kind of snapped and smacked her without really thinking about it. Right after it happened I got up and walked away because the whole lunchroom was staring at me, but I did apologize to her for it later and we remained friends.

The second one I don't regret however, and in this case another one of my female friends actually smacked me because she had been having a really bad day. I was rough housing with one of my other friends in the hall and she decided that she didn't like it so she walked over to us, grabbed my arm and smacked me across the face saying that I shouldn't be messing around. After the shock wore off I was like are you ****ing serious?! and I hauled off and smacked her in the face. While I'm not proud of that one I don't regret it either. We did end up aplogizing to each other later and we remained friends, although we aren't anymore for unrelated reasons.

I also think that part of the reason it happened was because I was relatively young (17) and didn't have as much impulse control as I do now. I'd be hardpressed to think of a situation where I would resort to it now, but at the same time I don't think that girls are sacrosanct. Doubt it'll happen again, in the 3 years I've been with my current gf she's never gotten close to making me mad enough to do anything like that.

[BigMike619]

You are hurt all the time and it's "accidental" on his part? He's just "clumsy?"

I'm sorry, this just sounds really odd.

If a guy is that "clumsy" with me a couple times, well, I guess I could understand that. But if I'm continually getting hurt, I'm kicking the dude in the nads, telling him he sucks tuna water, and moving on.

its like we're on the same level AGAIN!!

must be a so-cal thang

[bschurm]

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[Winning Season Please!]

Does on the ass count?

[tone_dubbz]

Does on the ass count?

Not too sure.

I wonder if my atomic donkey punches count!!!!!!!!!

[Teller]

If I were a betting man, I'd bet that the majority of the "yes" votes are from women.

I've been hit, kicked, slapped, grabbed, and had dishes thrown at me. I've never responded in kind.

Female on male domestic violence is a huge problem that no one seems to care about.

[Bliz]

I once had to choke a b****

---Wayne Brady

In all seriousness, no way. Not even close. Playfighting, wrestling, tickling, general "picking on" sure...but it's a very bright line

[cathartic-j]

In all seriousness, no way. Not even close. Playfighting, wrestling, tickling, general "picking on" sure...but it's a very bright line

I don't know about that; the line gets much less bright when you forget the safe word. There's a very particular sinking feeling when you realize that she isn't really that into curtains, and that the screaming isn't getting off, but an attempt to get you off of her. It sorta ruins the afterglow, too -- the conversation is just awkward.

But the worst part is trying to quit it after hitting it. Either you're addicted, or you feel so guilty about it the whole thing that you feel obligated to take her out to lunch or something afterward. Of course, that conversation is also terribly awkward, but she'll misinterpret the whole experience and start thinking that you're some sort of angry, brooding mystery. And as we all know, that's the worst thing that can ever happen in a relationship, because then she'll think that there's some soft inner mush inside of you that she needs to save and extract, so she'll start trying to talk to you and make you "open up" or go on "dates" and all that other crap.

The bottom line is that that line might seem bright now, but it's probably dimmer than you realize. And crossing it will only lead to bad things.

:paranoid:

(Just kidding, of course!)

[Spaceman Spiff]

My bf has tripped me, slapped me, kicked me, punch me, pretty much anything you can do. Obviously this is all accidental...he is not a violent person but he is one clumsy sob. I end up hurt all the time. I think I have been hurt by him so many times I cant even keep track. I know not to play fight with him too much because it always gets taken to the next level. I always get upset at first and then I feel bad because he is always apologizing and trying to rub or comfort me...

keeastman is right, this does sound odd.

[Symbol]

Could be the fact that my father was a very abusive person, but I don't believe a man ever has a right to lay a hand on a woman. In the same perspective, a woman has no right to lay a hand on a man either.

[PCS]

You are hurt all the time and it's "accidental" on his part? He's just "clumsy?"

I'm sorry, this just sounds really odd.

If a guy is that "clumsy" with me a couple times, well, I guess I could understand that. But if I'm continually getting hurt, I'm kicking the dude in the nads, telling him he sucks tuna water, and moving on.

keeastman is right, this does sound odd.

Odd isn't exactly the word I would use, but I do agree anyway. Odd.

[BigMike619]

If I were a betting man, I'd bet that the majority of the "yes" votes are from women.

I've been hit, kicked, slapped, grabbed, and had dishes thrown at me. I've never responded in kind.

Female on male domestic violence is a huge problem that no one seems to care about.

Im 6'3" and around 250. My ex wife was 5'3" and about 108-115. she would hit me and scratch me and I would end up having to lock myself in the bathroom and hold the door closed because she was trying to get at me.

women think its so wrong when men hit but they seem to forget when they get pissed that they shouldnt hit either.

[Special K]

If I were a betting man, I'd bet that the majority of the "yes" votes are from women.

I've been hit, kicked, slapped, grabbed, and had dishes thrown at me. I've never responded in kind.

Female on male domestic violence is a huge problem that no one seems to care about.

Im 6'3" and around 250. My ex wife was 5'3" and about 108-115. she would hit me and scratch me and I would end up having to lock myself in the bathroom and hold the door closed because she was trying to get at me.

women think its so wrong when men hit but they seem to forget when they get pissed that they shouldnt hit either.

Hey, hey, hey boys. Come on now. Not all women think it's acceptable for us girls to throw crap at you or hit or kick you. In fact, I would only say that psycho *****es deem that acceptable behavior. I don't know ONE of my girlfriends who has EVER done anything like that to their significant other. I think that anyone who lays a hand on a loved one out of anger has mental issues, whether man or woman.

Anyway, I just wish you guys wouldn't classify all women as accepting of female-on-male abuse, because really, there are a lot of us out there who aren't "psycho" like that.

Besides, I don't understand why chicks think physical violence is effective in dealing with men. I mean, what female doesn't know that dog house relegation is a waaayyy more effective means of dealing with an unruly male??

[PCS]

Coming from someone who, has spent so much time in the doghouse in the past that I'm liable to be charged second residence tax, I can agree with that.

[Special K]

Coming from someone who, has spent so much time in the doghouse in the past that I'm liable to be charged second residence tax, I can agree with that.

You and my fiancee both :laugh:

[Reic]

I kicked erin in the face one time on accident because she was tickling me and I was laying in my back with my legs dangling over the edge of a couch and my reaction was to fling my leg. Blam, right in the face.

[The Sisko]

You're askin' me....

[Skins Zombie]

I handed out a devastating spiral powerbomb to an ex once. The same ex also once tapped out to the business end of the figure 4 leg lock. WOOOOO!

Why?

I dont know it was an od relationship lol...

[NavyDave]

Does spanking her when she's a naughty Catholic schoolgirl count?

If so twice

[pjfootballer]

This is a little off-topic, but I have a somewhat similar story:

On the day before starting kindergarten, I played in a particularly rowdy game of basketball; I came out of it with a black eye (from the ball, if I remember correctly).

Two weeks later, I broke my nose when I ran into a tree.

The good news is that every teacher and staff member who knew my brother or me was asking me what happened. At the time, I thought it was because everyone wanted to know about my scary-looking injury and how brave I was, but now I understand the real motivation behind the questions.

It was a good four years before the prinicipal at my school stopped looking at my parents with a hint of suspicion...

I was a VERY accident prone kid. In addition to multiple sugeries, I've had 5 broken bones, nail in my foot, hit my head on the corner of a table, almost knocked my 4 front teeth out and had a sharpened tobbaco stick hurled at me and knocked me out leaving about a 3 inch hole behind my ear. Well, after about my third broken bone, a doctor at the hospital wanted to have my parents investigated for child abuse. This was in the 70's where most people minded their own business. Anyway, a nurse got ahold of what was going on and stopped the doctor. She said to him, "this kid is in my neighborhood, he does things like this all the time. I can vouch for them." We avoided alot of trouble that day because I came in on her shift.

[CPortJGibbs89]

My bf has tripped me, slapped me, kicked me, punch me, pretty much anything you can do. Obviously this is all accidental...he is not a violent person but he is one clumsy sob. I end up hurt all the time. I think I have been hurt by him so many times I cant even keep track. I know not to play fight with him too much because it always gets taken to the next level. I always get upset at first and then I feel bad because he is always apologizing and trying to rub or comfort me...

Jesus Kellie now extremeskins thinks I am a women beater could you clear some things up for me!!! Me and my girlfriend love to play fight and yea I smack her butt and mess around with her and yes I am a clumsy guy and I have accidently elbowed her in the face on a few occasions but physically harming I dont think so. Her dad would pull out a shotgun on me if I ever hit her of any sort which I would never do that! Thanks for the great post I am now officialy labeled the Extremeskins women beater :laugh: :laugh:

[Heavens Safety 21]

keeastman is right, this does sound odd.

Its not odd. Im pretty sure if my bf was actually really hurting me I would do something about it. I have dated him for 7 years and we have done stupid things...he is just seriously clumsy. People take things out of context on here all the time.

[Heavens Safety 21]

Jesus Kellie now extremeskins thinks I am a women beater could you clear some things up for me!!! Me and my girlfriend love to play fight and yea I smack her butt and mess around with her and yes I am a clumsy guy and I have accidently elbowed her in the face on a few occasions but physically harming I dont think so. Her dad would pull out a shotgun on me if I ever hit her of any sort which I would never do that! Thanks for the great post I am now officialy labeled the Extremeskins women beater :laugh: :laugh:

Oh dont worry babe...I like to play rough!!!