9_to_42_td Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Most of the time the sex leads to a relationship. What about? Never mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QBkilla56 Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 How about friends with benefits? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xameil Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Whatever happened to the 50 yard rule? I thought that applied to the office as well. I thought that rule meant you had to have sex on the 50 yard line...how does that apply at work? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coooleeey Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Alright, what's the 50 yard rule? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoCalMike Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 What I tell people about this is.....Is this just a job or is this your career? A job is a job, and if this girl is someone you could see living your life with then go ahead, but if this job is your CAREER, and you have time and sweat/tears/etc....invested into the company, then I don't think it is worth it to mess that dynamic up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. S Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 if she is mature about it, and you guys feel you can handle a potential breakup, then it is fine. I think it is best though that you guys keep it very low key at work. You will see each other after work anyways. Of course, this is a guys train of thought, a girl may be different. If she wants you to visit her and talk to her all the time during work, and then you guys still hang out afterwards, that could become a problem. Now, the good thing in your case is that you've already known her for over a year. From what I have seen, in those cases people can usually keep things down low because they don't feel the need to act any differently at work just because they are committed to one another. You hear generalizations and horror stories, but, that's all they are, generalizations and horror stories, it's up to the people to make the consequences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henry Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Alright, what's the 50 yard rule? Never date anyone who lives less than 50 yards from where you live. ... or what Xameil said ... depending on what school you went to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChocolateCitySkin Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Yes its bad to have feelings for a coworker. Its not bad to grope and make out with them though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KingGibbs Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 What about? Never mind. :doh: What? What? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CGSKINS Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Most of the time the sex leads to a relationship. Not if you put your Pimp hand down and let her know that you aint trying to get serious because circumstances at work. I have had plenty flings at work. You have to be straight up with them and let know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jb4348 Posted January 11, 2007 Author Share Posted January 11, 2007 Well thanks guys I thank you for all your comments. We just started dating and where I work its impossible to just go hang out with her at work. Plus there is no need to anyway if we hang out after work. This is just a job for me but I am very well respected and I don't want to tarnish that view of me. We do keep it very low key just because neither of us want that drama. I think things will work out and I really hope they do because she is a really cool chick. Thanks again everyone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonsofwashington Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 No pic of the chic. How can we decide if we can't get a looksee. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twenty-eight Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Hit it and RUN. Yup. Thats the worst advice you'll get:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the burgundy and gold Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 How about friends with benefits? have better words ever been uttered? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KingGibbs Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Not if you put your Pimp hand down and let her know that you aint trying to get serious because circumstances at work. I have had plenty flings at work. You have to be straight up with them and let know. I guess not all of us can get our pimp on like you. :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twenty-eight Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 have better words ever been uttered? Yes..... Road Head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the burgundy and gold Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Yes.....Road Head. please explain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twenty-eight Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 please explain. No explanation needed. I got another one for ya..... MY GIRL GOT A GIRLFRIEND Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the burgundy and gold Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 MY GIRL GOT A GIRLFRIEND haha i actually have heard that one before and know what it means. :applause: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xameil Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Never date anyone who lives less than 50 yards from where you live.... or what Xameil said ... depending on what school you went to. we called it sex on the U, and I fulfilled my obligation.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DCsportsfan53 Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 please explain. are you serious? Oh, nm, 16, you'll get there No explanation needed.I got another one for ya..... MY GIRL GOT A GIRLFRIEND :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tizzod Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 No explanation needed.I got another one for ya..... MY GIRL GOT A GIRLFRIEND Dude's on fire! :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Sir Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 That's a bad idea, too many pycho ****es out there to trust one that works in the same building for 8 hours a day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the burgundy and gold Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 are you serious? Oh, nm, 16, you'll get there you guys gotta cut me a break, i havent heard all the stuff you have. Highschoolers know most of the good stuff but not all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DCsportsfan53 Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 That's a bad idea, too many pycho ****es out there to trust one that works in the same building for 8 hours a day. He has been working with her for a year already. Unless she's extra crafty, he'd probably know by now, one would hope. That or the ***** has him blinded and it won't matter either way cuz he'll be following the wrong head Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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