Seabee1973 Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 you know what this action will cause?Him and her buying you lots of drinks at the bar...it's win-win Buying him drinks to announce he is a new daddy afterwards? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrockster21 Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 Oh yeah. Burned for being correct. You wana make some bets if a majority of people think swinging is abnormal and wrong?You're stupid but not that stupid.... Well, considering the majority of people in this thread said to bang her, then yeah, I'll take that bet. I win!! Go crawl back under your rock now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaron Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 Please do not post pictures labeled "pics of the job" and "Bone working hard" in a thread of this nature without delivering the goods..... Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Major Harris Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 Well, considering the majority of people in this thread said to bang her, then yeah, I'll take that bet. I win!! Go crawl back under your rock now... c'mon jrock....you know that the line between right and wrong is easily blurred when talking about sex with a hot woman. :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
APBT Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 Hit it. This is a once in a life time affair for most, unless you live near Tysons Corner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrockster21 Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 Please do not post pictures labeled "pics of the job" and "Bone working hard" in a thread of this nature without delivering the goods.....Thanks :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: c'mon jrock....you know that the line between right and wrong is easily blurred when talking about sex with a hot woman. :laugh: But its only a question of right and wrong to you....its a question of taste to me. Some people like to wife swap...who am I to say that's a bad thing? I thought the god-squad was all about god judging you at the end of your life...so why hate on someone who wants to swing? :whoknows: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Major Harris Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 But its only a question of right and wrong to you....its a question of taste to me. Some people like to wife swap...who am I to say that's a bad thing? I thought the god-squad was all about god judging you at the end of your life...so why hate on someone who wants to swing? :whoknows: jrock, your ability to understand sarcasm depresses me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonJeremy Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 ...Best approach is be up front and honest about your apprehension and put it on the table that you don't want to screw up the friendship. If they're still cool with it then by all means have at it. They're not married and like some have already said it may strengthen your friendship. That was going to be my advice but I decided to quote instead of re-type it. If the subject comes up again...see above! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rtbasye Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 in concept this sounds like a great idea.... but you have to live in the real world, with a since of guilt perhaps, even if they approve. you say you have only known them for 2 weeks... what else dont you know about them???? I'd have to say pass on that offer... but thats just me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrockster21 Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 jrock, your ability to understand sarcasm depresses me. Oh, I fully recognized your sarcasm...just wanted to be clear on my standpoint. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Major Harris Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 Oh, I fully recognized your sarcasm...just wanted to be clear on my standpoint. roger that. 10-4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blk_rshn Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 Hit it. This is a once in a life time affair for most, unless you live near Tysons Corner. What makes Tyson's so special? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jumbo Posted July 1, 2006 Share Posted July 1, 2006 BTW, I and most people deem that behavior abnormal. Yes, well according to laws, publications, and sermons of the day, the same used to be the said about male-female oral sex but times change Common Sense...If some only knew it existed. I've noted that if anything is common, it certainly isn't sense. You're stupid but not that stupid....Well, you’re stupid too, but not as stupid as everyone says. :laugh: Sorry, JP, just playing off your comments as they kinda stuck with me and set-up my thoughts. Seriously, though, this topic is an interesting one to me because of people I've personally known, and some of the earlier times in my life when I saw a fair amount of "swinging" behavior, and some other reasons. I don’t get bothered about the "common sense" of people who get their panties in a bunch and get all judgmental about the sexual behaviors of other consenting adults . But I understand their moral and/or religious concerns regarding the behavior for themselves as I share some of them. In this specific case, when I talked to bone1fide ,I sure urged caution at the minimum. I agree with many of the points in this thread about how tricky (even aside the moral angle) such situations can be in terms of affecting relationships and self-esteem. During the late 60's and early 70's, while my wife and I declined a number of similar opportunities, I got a much more inforemd idea of just how extensive the swinging community is in this country and Canada. I found out it got even bigger during the 80’s. It sure isn't my cup of tea, but literally hundreds of thousands of otherwise “normal” couples (and sure, freaks too, just like there are freaks anywhere) do it and are fine with it, many for decades. Go figure. I also know of a number of decidedly bad outcomes. Personally, I vote no on other people in the room with me and a lady, period. But then I ain’t very entertained by porn either, and particularly group-scenes. I just love the real thing, one-on-one. I wonder how many people who are really bothered by this idea have no problem watching several couples going at it in a porn video, but think people doing it in real life is "wrong" or "abnormal?" I sure as hell don't get people who want to watch their gf/wife get banged. As for sharing the gf/wife as part of the swapping deal, some guys I knew who did that didn’t seem to carry the same territorial, possession, ownership, or ego stuff that most others have when they described their attitudes about why it didn'tbother them. It wasn’t usually that they lacked otherwise normal moral or ethical beliefs. I also note that many guys get stimulated by watching regular ole porn, where some guy other than you is banging some girl, and we don’t seem to think its weird for a hetero man to be able to be stimulated watching another guy doing it since that is part of the picture. I mean I know we can say “I’m watching the chick”, but isn’t it still kind of interesting how that works? Why would hereto guys want to have some naked dude with a big rigidity issue in open view and watch it (as part of the scene)? But swapping is "weird." I dunno. I still vote no for me, but like to here what happens when/if you try it :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
APBT Posted July 2, 2006 Share Posted July 2, 2006 What makes Tyson's so special? You would be surprised at the so called secret societies that are over there. Rich girls and Professional women are freaks, but you couldn't tell that by one driving by with their noses in the air. Its very live there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CowboyzBsuckaz Posted July 2, 2006 Share Posted July 2, 2006 be careful, the husband may try to charge you with a criminal and civil suit of rape, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Punani2 Posted July 2, 2006 Share Posted July 2, 2006 Yes, well according to laws, publications, and sermons of the day, the same used to be the said about male-female oral sex but times change I've noted that if anything is common, it certainly isn't sense. Well, you’re stupid too, but not as stupid as everyone says. :laugh: Sorry, JP, just playing off your comments as they kinda stuck with me and set-up my thoughts. Seriously, though, this topic is an interesting one to me because of people I've personally known, and some of the earlier times in my life when I saw a fair amount of "swinging" behavior, and some other reasons. I don’t get bothered about the "common sense" of people who get their panties in a bunch and get all judgmental about the sexual behaviors of other consenting adults . But I understand their moral and/or religious concerns regarding the behavior for themselves as I share some of them. In this specific case, when I talked to bone1fide ,I sure urged caution at the minimum. I agree with many of the points in this thread about how tricky (even aside the moral angle) such situations can be in terms of affecting relationships and self-esteem. During the late 60's and early 70's, while my wife and I declined a number of similar opportunities, I got a much more inforemd idea of just how extensive the swinging community is in this country and Canada. I found out it got even bigger during the 80’s. It sure isn't my cup of tea, but literally hundreds of thousands of otherwise “normal” couples (and sure, freaks too, just like there are freaks anywhere) do it and are fine with it, many for decades. Go figure. I also know of a number of decidedly bad outcomes. Personally, I vote no on other people in the room with me and a lady, period. But then I ain’t very entertained by porn either, and particularly group-scenes. I just love the real thing, one-on-one. I wonder how many people who are really bothered by this idea have no problem watching several couples going at it in a porn video, but think people doing it in real life is "wrong" or "abnormal?" I sure as hell don't get people who want to watch their gf/wife get banged. As for sharing the gf/wife as part of the swapping deal, some guys I knew who did that didn’t seem to carry the same territorial, possession, ownership, or ego stuff that most others have when they described their attitudes about why it didn'tbother them. It wasn’t usually that they lacked otherwise normal moral or ethical beliefs. I also note that many guys get stimulated by watching regular ole porn, where some guy other than you is banging some girl, and we don’t seem to think its weird for a hetero man to be able to be stimulated watching another guy doing it since that is part of the picture. I mean I know we can say “I’m watching the chick”, but isn’t it still kind of interesting how that works? Why would hereto guys want to have some naked dude with a big rigidity issue in open view and watch it (as part of the scene)? But swapping is "weird." I dunno. I still vote no for me, but like to here what happens when/if you try it :laugh: Yes, well according to laws, publications, and sermons of the day, the same used to be the said about male-female oral sex but times change The problem with this statement is that I'm not referring to any of those things. What I am talking about is human nature and for most people swinging would create an unstable atmosphere in a relationship. It would lead to jealousy and trust issues in the vast majority of people who would try this. I dunno if you have ever listen to loveline on the radio but this reminds me of a funny story from that show. Whenever someone called that program asking about wanting to bring another person in the bedroom. Dr Drew who is the host of the show says right off the bat "oh, so you want the relationship to end." Most are confused by the comment but he knows from past dealings with these issues on the show that the vast majority of the people who try this end up destroying their relationships. I'm not approaching this issue has one of judging others. Like I said before, I along with most people deem this behavior abnormal and potentially damaging to a relationship due to the reasons I've listed above. Some people can be swingers and have no problems in their relationships. Whatever floats their boat and if they like doing it good for them. I don't think less of them as people just I couldn't do it myself. However, I do question how two people who do this can have any sort of intimacy in their relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonef1de Posted July 2, 2006 Author Share Posted July 2, 2006 Please do not post pictures labeled "pics of the job" and "Bone working hard" in a thread of this nature without delivering the goods.....Thanks :laugh: We'll just to keep the tribe updated. I got invited to their beach house next weekend to watch some Chapelle show. Nothing sets the mood like some True Hollywood Stories narrated by Charlie Murphy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Major Harris Posted July 2, 2006 Share Posted July 2, 2006 :laugh: We'll just to keep the tribe updated. I got invited to their beach house next weekend to watch some Chapelle show. Nothing sets the mood like some True Hollywood Stories narrated by Charlie Murphy and so it begins. i knew you'd do it. :hump: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonef1de Posted July 2, 2006 Author Share Posted July 2, 2006 and so it begins. i knew you'd do it. :hump: Don't bank on it just yet... I don't know if I truly trust a guy who likes to drink wine with his chick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gallntfox Posted July 2, 2006 Share Posted July 2, 2006 Don't bank on it just yet... That's what we've all been trying to tell you Bonef1de.........ohhhhhhhhhh...you said "bank" :doh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissU28 Posted July 2, 2006 Share Posted July 2, 2006 :laugh: We'll just to keep the tribe updated. I got invited to their beach house next weekend to watch some Chapelle show. Nothing sets the mood like some True Hollywood Stories narrated by Charlie Murphy or Prince playing basketball.... "game....blouses" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heisenberg Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Whatever happened with this story? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigMike619 Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 good question... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reic Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Dammit, back from 2006, I was hoping this thread would end with a good story. Where is bone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IONTOP Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Damn I miss Bone... I hope he's still doing well, clean and sober... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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